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Talon, I am not mesongynist so do not take my statement wrong sis but the problem alot of guys have is staying home equally as a women and taking care of children, which ruins a year of you and your wife's career and both lose a year each. it is better for the women just to spend may be two years at home max and I know this sounds sexist but after two years the daycares are automatically available and the career can resume! In this category alot of my friends(femme) are not willing to give up their career for their fiancee especially if he is not willing to also stay partly at home to take care of children, while assienne and pakistan women are even willing to sacrifice up to two years of their career infact my grandmama even spent more than 5 years off her career to take care of my papa!