You cant browbeat anyone into respecting your religion. reform from within and respect would come automatically.
Allow let me correct you and bring you into the sad reality. Hindu-ism is just as screwed up Christianity or Islam. I can list many events where Hindus killed Christians and Muslims without really a cause. So where's the reform in the Hindu community?? Similarly, Christianity ....you think all Saints exist there? Now let's go to Judia-ism...... didn't you guys support Palestine for the longest time as Israel was violating human rights on hourly basis?? The fact is, no religion teaches to kill, to harm human beings, to disrespect others feelings, to break people's hearts....YET all the followers do that!!!! So here's your answer.
Then a bit detailed answer is that there is NO such thing as a reform in the religion. Some morons living in the caves in Afghanistan on 9-11 gave the best chance to certain people who wanted another cold war type of an Enemy.
9-11 was a tragic event cuz it killed civilians by terrorists who publicized themselves as Muslims. But their acts that day were ALL against Islam's core teachings, similar to the Christian guy in Norway who killed so many in the name of the religion or the IRA or the Oklahoma city bomber.... all of these people's acts were against the core teachings of Christianity and against Jesus' acts.
Similarly, I think destroying Barbari masjid, burning of Christians and Muslim villages and raping Kashmiri women and killing males there.....is probably against the core principles of Hindu-ism. Similarly, my Jewish friends are very loving and respectful and caring. But stuff that some Jews do in Israel to Palestinians....I know it's not the religion....It's the people that have screws lose in their brains!!
But, many in Western politics still utilize 9-11 (a sad tragic day in human history) as an opportunity to take revenge, control and humiliate a religion of 1.5 billion people and reinvent cold war, this time, not with a country but against 1.5 billion people!!!
Every religion has fundamentals....some come on tv and talk about God in a suit and smile and talk about 'freeing up' countries and support the killing of civilians as 'God work' and justify it with phrases from the Bible. While other talk about how a greater map will be formed as God said that the greater Israel...some want their lands back from Jews....then there are some who think bringing down World Trade center and killing of innocents will result in Islamic supremacy or to make a 'point'.....and then some talk about how Hindu-mata needs to be the only one surviving and ruling....
Then there are some that act stupid (like the muslims these days who are involved in the violent protests or have committed violent acts) and make a fool out of them, instead of ignoring the video and the drama that follows.
To me, all these sides are wrong. Religious fundamentalism is wrong from its core fundamentals in ANY religion. ALL religions need reforms and rather quickly as the world seems to be becoming a more dangerous place to live every day!!!!