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Would you take the kids on holiday to Pakistan?

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"We have had wonderful family weekends in Karachi, Peshawar, and Lahore (pictured Credit: GETTY), and have not felt threatened anywhere"

Ben Farmer
8 July 2019 • 10:50am

Weaving up a giddying mountain track on horseback towards one of the world’s highest peaks last month, I could only reflect on how much this year’s family holiday was every bit as different as we had hoped.

With a frothing river thundering at the bottom of a vertiginous gorge on one side and alpine forest on the other, we were a long way from our usual fare of a kids’ club belting out ‘Baby Shark’.

For several years after the arrival of our daughter, holidays had become stuck in a comfortable rut. We chose a resort in the Med or the Far East, complete with disco and water slides, and spent 10 days pleasantly lazing.

Yet the memory of more varied pre-baby holidays kept nagging and a new posting to Islamabad to cover the region for The Telegraph this summer gave the opportunity for something different.

Pakistan may not yet spring to mind as an obvious family holiday destination, with a reputation that is more Homeland than The Travel Show. Yet many in the country argue, with some justification, that such a portrayal is unfair. The militant violence which blighted the country earlier in the decade has fallen dramatically following military security campaigns, and the country is raring to regain its standing as a jewel in the world of exotic and adventurous travel. The wider world is staring to take notice. British Airways last month resumed direct flights after a hiatus of 11 years. Planes currently leave three days a week, but that is expected to become more frequent. The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are due to visit in the autumn.

As a foreign correspondent I often have to write about the grimmer things going on in a country, but like anywhere there is more to Pakistan than doom and gloom. Since arriving, we have had wonderful family weekends at the seaside in Karachi, exploring the bazaar in Peshawar, or sampling the art galleries and old city of Lahore. We have not felt threatened anywhere and have only found hospitality and curiosity. The procession of people who want to greet our daughter, pinch her cheeks and take a selfie can at times be almost overwhelming.

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The seaside in Karachi Credit: GETTY

For our summer holiday, as the temperatures nudged 110F (43C) in Islamabad, we had decided to escape the heat to what is for many, the country’s finest attraction: the spectacular northern highlands.

The confluence of the Himalayan, Karakoram and Hindu Kush ranges bless the region with some of the most stunning mountainscapes and trekking in the world. Throw in the local passion for fast and furious polo, dramatic hill forts and diverse local cultures and you have quite a package.

“We have everything, but the problem is that we have been titled as a terrorist country,” said Irfanullah Baig of Waljis Travel, which arranged our trip. One of the oldest travel agents catering to overseas tourists, he makes arrangements for nearly 2,000 foreigners a year, mainly from the UK.

But beyond security, was Pakistan right for a two-week family holiday, we wondered? Was there enough to satisfy both the adults and an easily bored five-year-old?

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Mountain views in Chitral Credit: GETTY

Our bespoke itinerary included 14 nights away with a driver and Toyota Hilux to handle the sometimes rough mountain roads.

Heading north from the capital, our first stop was the sublime mountain valley of Chitral. This former princely state within touching distance of the border with Afghanistan is known for its tumultuous polo, more akin to Afghan buzkashi than the formal game played elsewhere. It is also home to some enchanting hotels, namely the Ayun Fort Inn and the Hindu Kush Heights, with rooms that soak up the serene valley views. We wished we had stayed longer.

Northwards and the road becomes rougher before crossing the 12,100ft Shandur Pass, which hosts an annual three-day polo festival. Here on a plateau surrounded by an amphitheatre of mountains, teams from Chitral and neighbouring Gilgit-Baltistan battle for supremacy on what feels like the roof of the world. For the rest of the summer it is left to yaks and shepherds.

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Polo at the Shandur Pass Credit: alamy

Down into Gilgit and on to Karimabad, the capital of Hunza. It is difficult to envisage a more dramatically appointed town, with views of 25,551ft Rakaposhi. All this is presided over by the wooden maze of cubby holes and history which is the 700-year-old former home of the rulers of Hunza, Baltit Fort.

On via a trip to the Chinese border in the snowy Khunjerab Pass, stopping on the way to watch scurrying marmots and majestic ibex, and then into Skardu, where each corner bludgeons the senses with a new view of elemental mountain ranges.

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Baltit Fort Credit: GETTY

We ended at Fairy Meadows, reached by a nervy journey along a jeep track hugging the mountain side and then onto horses to our chalet in the shadow of Nanga Parbat, the ninth highest peak on earth.

While foreign tourists were rarely glimpsed, middle-class Pakistani holidaymakers keen to escape the scorching plains of Punjab and Sindh and see another side of their country were commonplace, many with children in tow.

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Skardu Credit: GETTY

It turned out we had no reason to fear the verdict of a five-year-old. She loved it. Animal spotting, horse riding, exploring forts, and crossing rope bridges were all big hits. Long car journeys between towns may put some parents off, but for those who would rather fly, there are airports in Gilgit, Chitral and Skardu.

The Foreign Office travel advice for some parts of the country is still foreboding. Mr Baig believes it is needlessly cautious now security has improved so rapidly. “It is not realistic I have to say,” he said. “They need to revisit their policies.” But even abiding by the advice, the danger spots can be skirted around.

Pakistan has its problems with poverty, corruption and political turbulence. But it also has another side, which it is keen to show to tourists and which will repay the adventurous, whatever their age.

At a glance | The Foreign Office advice for Pakistan


The FCO advises against all travel to a clutch of regions, including the Federally Administered Tribal Areas, the city of Peshawar, northern and western Balochistan, the Karakoram Highway between Islamabad and Gilgit, and the districts of Charsadda, Kohat, Tank, Bannu, Lakki, Dera Ismail Khan, Swat, Buner and Lower Dir in Khyber-Pakhtunkhwa.

It advises against all but essential travel to Quetta, the Kalash Valley, the Bamoboret Valley and Arandu District to the south and west of Chitral in Khyber-Pakhtunkhwa, the city of Nawabshah in Sindh Province, and areas of interior Sindh to the north of Nawabshah.

 
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Absolutely. Not sure i'd take young children on the long mountain drives - depends on your kids, mine are okay not but when they were younger would make me want to jump out of the car after a few hours.

If i was a white person though - not yet. I think the market is not as tourist ready as the destination places around the world.
 
I wanna try the food in Lahore and the scenery in GB. Hopefully one day.
I brought my White friends to Lahore and the biggest thing they took away was how amazing the food was.

They espcially loved Karahi.
 
I brought my White friends to Lahore and the biggest thing they took away was how amazing the food was.

They espcially loved Karahi.

Mujhe bhi khana hai. Lassi peeni hai especially. Nihari also. Yum Yum.

What else is good in the food there ?
 
Mujhe bhi khana hai. Lassi peeni hai especially. Nihari also. Yum Yum.

What else is good in the food there ?
my personal faves are
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Lahori puri chikar chole

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Nihari
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Karahi
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Lahori charga


Of course there are a lot more things to eat, and suprprisingly, a lot of good western food as well.
 
I’ve never thought about that, but I like visiting unusual places, and this one sounds good. But I need to wait until they grow up so they can better manage a long journey.
 
Yeah its fun but not when kids r too young……once kids over 8 it should be ok
 
Pakistan is not a holiday - its a stressful experience with a hostile environment in terms of ground transportation, diseases, lack of reliable infrastructure and crime unless you confine yourself to certain posh sectors in Islamabad or Lahore.
All other cities are essentially a warzone which your senses have already enough ptsd of from childhood.
Then there are family political considerations and so on.

The saving grace is the food you love and it’s generally halal nature unless someone is serving donkey or dog as mutton - on top of which is the guaranteed destruction of your stomach lining through the various viral gastric infections and lack of hygiene in many commercial kitchens.

However, it is a rite of passage for any children of expats for them to become truly toughened human beings that can stand comfortably in a warzone and still not be fazed
 
The only places where I take my family are Chitral and Gilgit Baltistan. Since I have family in Chitral this is a good place to be. People are generally speaking educated and polite.

I don't like bigger cities in Pakistan. The people in bigger cities are rude and hostile. They are also corrupt.
 
Not threatened but definitely disgusted by some of the behavior of people in cities. Only respite was in northern areas, where people behaved like normal human beings and not like animals masquerading as humans in the bazars, airports, malls and restaurants.

Visited Badshahi Masjid and there was litter all over the Masjid's courtyard and corridors, and administrators sitting on their asses and no one bothering to pickup the trash.
 
I’ve never thought about that, but I like visiting unusual places, and this one sounds good. But I need to wait until they grow up so they can better manage a long journey. I'm not sure they will approve of my decision, but they like unusual places as much as I do, so I think we will be fine. The last time we went on a vacation to Hawaii and had a great time filled with various activities in Oahu, the island where Honolulu is situated. But Pakistan is much different, and they will have to be more patient there and be able to see beauty not in activities but in the place itself.
 
i wish i went more when i was a young teenager and now its about money.
i take first yet to be born to pakistan anytime the hot sun does them gud and some ppl go there comeback healthier and even taller.
 

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