I'm sorry, ordinarily I wouldn't have written a response, but there are some funny parts in the post above,
Why exactly was there a war-like situation in 2002 - the events in February or the events in May, perhaps the ones in September - and in 2008 ? And do you think that a nuclear arsenal justifies the actions of Pakistan of those years that created a war-like situation? Do you think that Indian responses to whatever Pakistan had done were irrational, 'misadventures'?
I am very curious to know what you think (not what you claim to think).