Ok thats a thing , i personally knew a pakistani guy who was nikkahed he would run after single hindu muslim pakistani indian young old women and try to get into their skirts heck the extent was this that he would even try to corrupt an innocent girl for his personal lust, but after doing all this he would blame women and he is an otherwise very broadminded secular guy, and he would boastfully say han jis say shadi ho woh aurat kharab tau nahi honi chaheeay, and despite being fully married even now he still chases women.
Now if u have this kind of lifestyle as u mentioned in above post then u shud also be open to accept a same sort of a woman as wife and not go out hunting for an untouched, total masoom girl who has barely dated before.
What i cant stand is hypocritical behaviors. If one adopts a lifestyle for themself they should also be accepting towards their partners having similar lifestyle before marriage.
