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Where have all the females gone?

good god man. lets have one thread without me having to see a china vs india thread.

this gender imbalance is a huge threat to society. when small countries like south korea does it, it affects the world very little. when the world's most populous country and the second most populous does it, it has a global implication.

first let's talk about what is happening in Korea. Korea is traditionally an "ultra" confucian country that is almost radically patriarchical. there are south korean male politicians even to this day saying openly that women shouldnt be president. But traditionally families prefer boys as men are the bread winners and traditionally, women would leave their family to join her husbands. Modernity has changes korea, but culture changes slowly. But abortion is legal in korea and even though ultra sound sex identificatio. is illegal in korea, many people just fly to other countries to check it out.

Now this has caught up to Korea and many old bachelors especially in the poor countryside are having difficult time finding wives. even with a gender imbalance, an obivous solution would be for men to marry later in life and women to marry earlier. but in korea, both men and women are marrying later in life. Right now, these poor farmers are marrying even poorer women. Many are ethnic koreans from china, vietnamese, and philipinas.

Now what will happen to China and India? General rule of thumb is that the women will be from a poorer place than where they are. afterall, why would any women go to a far away exotic place to marry poor old men whom they have no cultural connection with?

I think the answer is simple. twenty years down the line places like vietnam or the phillipines are NOT going to be any poorer than china so no women from those countries will come. but even if they did, there simply arent enough women to marry all those bachelors. So where?

Who in the world usually gets really screwed over? answer is simple.

we will probably see a very different future...
 
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I think the answer is simple. twenty years down the line places like vietnam or the phillipines are NOT going to be any poorer than china so no women from those countries will come. but even if they did, there simply arent enough women to marry all those bachelors. So where?

Who in the world usually gets really screwed over? answer is simple.

we will probably see a very different future...
LOL China is 4x wealthier than Vietnam and 3x wealthier than Philippines. China is also 5x wealthier than india. So please don't compare China to those third world holes.
 
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China was a third world hole few years back... do not behave like a dickhead with the newly acquired wealth... :disagree:

On the other hand- whatever wealth you acquire- you will remain CCP slave... :D

LOL China is 4x wealthier than Vietnam and 3x wealthier than Philippines. China is also 5x wealthier than india. So please don't compare China to those third world holes.
 
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well, sinochallenger, YOU probably are a nice rich fat cat living in a shanghai highrise. but what about that guy in the countryside growing the rice you eat for dinner? YOU probably dont have any problem finding a wife. But there are a lot of Chinese men who will get sickand tired of playing the skin flute.

look. The average South Korean is several times richer than the average Chinese. I'm not saying this to shame you Chinese, I say this to illustrate a point: even in richer Korea we have this problem just like India and China. and so what if China is richer than India? you think small countries like vietnam and philippines even have enough eligible bachelorettes to marry chinese bachelors? i think not.

and more over, if most Chinese men think like you, why would any vietnamese women and phillipinas want to marry them? They have pride for their country and heritage too.

But as i was saying, both india and china will seek to solve this problem. and as i said before, i think it's obvious what will happen, because we see it already. poor indian and chinese farmers will be looking for wives who are even poorer than them. where would such women live?

answer is obvious.
 
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China has worse sex ratio compared to India :O

Few days ago , Chinese were trolling on the Female foeticide thread .

Ahh guys .. It's better to first check your own house
 
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well, sinochallenger, YOU probably are a nice rich fat cat living in a shanghai highrise. but what about that guy in the countryside growing the rice you eat for dinner? YOU probably dont have any problem finding a wife. But there are a lot of Chinese men who will get sickand tired of playing the skin flute.

look. The average South Korean is several times richer than the average Chinese. I'm not saying this to shame you Chinese, I say this to illustrate a point: even in richer Korea we have this problem just like India and China. and so what if China is richer than India? you think small countries like vietnam and philippines even have enough eligible bachelorettes to marry chinese bachelors? i think not.

and more over, if most Chinese men think like you, why would any vietnamese women and phillipinas want to marry them? They have pride for their country and heritage too.

But as i was saying, both india and china will seek to solve this problem. and as i said before, i think it's obvious what will happen, because we see it already. poor indian and chinese farmers will be looking for wives who are even poorer than them. where would such women live?

answer is obvious.
What on earth are you talking about? China doesn't need women from Vietnam or Philippines. I don't care how poor they are. They are not our own people. Your entire "theory" is wrong from the beginning. China will develop economically and solve all our problems independently. Other countries like Vietnam and india. Who cares?
 
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ahhahahhahahahha.... ok ,whatever you say dude.

i guess china will succeed in human cloning, because, i dont know how you can solve the fact that men are jerking off due to lack of women.

i supposemit'snot your problem, since you are rich enough to attract women, but i wonder how you will solve your poor farmer's problem. I guess you will do what the communist party do. mjust beat the dissenters into submission.

good luck
 
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ahhahahhahahahha.... ok ,whatever you say dude.

i guess china will succeed in human cloning, because, i dont know how you can solve the fact that men are jerking off due to lack of women.

i supposemit'snot your problem, since you are rich enough to attract women, but i wonder how you will solve your poor farmer's problem. I guess you will do what the communist party do. mjust beat the dissenters into submission.

good luck

the answers are not easy but here are some potential ways to solve it:

1. encourage younger women to marry older men. This way it pushes the problem down the line and dilutes it until the sex ratio can be solved. We're no longer ultra Confucian (thanks to the CR, which has this as one of its few good points) and gender equality is hammered into our heads from day 1 in school, so as the generation that grew up with formal educations comes of age, they'll naturally have no gender bias.

2. increase the proportion reached by higher education and urbanization. it is much more difficult to educate someone later in life, after they've formed their cultural opinions, than it is to simply educate them from birth. As formal education, higher education and urbanization spread, attitudes will change radically and people won't want to do gender selection. Actually, the biggest problem right now is that the grandparents are the ones who want to do gender selection the most, most youth don't really care, but you know that in Asian cultures, grandparents have the final say.

3. liberal use of the death penalty. 90% of arrested criminals are males and almost 100% of violent criminals are males. this has the added benefit of removing lower quality males from the gene pool.

4. affirmative action for females. This is not so important because it is already being done and it has been shown to have little effect. It will become important if number 2 is done. Farmers don't care about increased test scores since they don't plan to have their children go to school anyways in some provinces. I'm from a poor province, but everyone here wants to go to school, and the exam is one of the most competitive in the country. Maybe its because the number of top tier universities in this province is 3rd nationwide, just behind Beijing and Shanghai. In some other poor provinces, they just give up and tell their kids to become factory workers, bartenders and waitresses.

5. create a "Peace Corps" for physical labor. Any physically fit person (measured such that almost all females are disqualified) from the ages of 18 to 21 who is not a college student and cannot provide proof of employment within 6 months should be forced to volunteer in poverty reducing jobs for the average national wage such as breaking rocks, hauling dirt and building roads.

technically there is an upside; more choices for women :p

depends on country. Here most of the excess males born are from the lower class. In India, it is the rich who are more likely to practice gender selection.
 
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What on earth are you talking about? China doesn't need women from Vietnam or Philippines. I don't care how poor they are. They are not our own people. Your entire "theory" is wrong from the beginning. China will develop economically and solve all our problems independently. Other countries like Vietnam and india. Who cares?

The Chinese arrested in HCM city
The girls are brought from the western provinces of Mekong delta (where the Minh Huong ethnic are living) to the hotel in HCMC for two Chinese men choose for wives. They are "eye view", the police reported.
21/6, HCM City Police arrested chinese in native citizens Thong A Loc (59 years old, in Tan Phu district), Su Min (43, Tan Binh District), Cen Yibin (41 years), Huang Hui Huang (27 years old , same as the Chinese) to Tan Phu district police continue to investigate the behavior of illegal marriage fraud action.

Ng
 
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The Chinese arrested in HCM city
The girls are brought from the western provinces of Mekong delta (where the Minh Huong ethnic are living) to the hotel in HCMC for two Chinese men choose for wives. They are "eye view", the police reported.
21/6, HCM City Police arrested chinese in native citizens Thong A Loc (59 years old, in Tan Phu district), Su Min (43, Tan Binh District), Cen Yibin (41 years), Huang Hui Huang (27 years old , same as the Chinese) to Tan Phu district police continue to investigate the behavior of illegal marriage fraud action.

Ng

I read the article, yes, but unfortunately, as the comments said, "there are many women who want to form families in Vietnam, but they can't, so they must go overseas". We have similar culture, but no patriarchy, so they can work outside the home, and send money back to Vietnam.
 
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I read the article, yes, but unfortunately, as the comments said, "there are many women who want to form families in Vietnam, but they can't, so they must go overseas". We have similar culture, but no patriarchy, so they can work outside the home, and send money back to Vietnam.

The human trafficking is illegal in Vietnam. You can read all the comments thereof, opinion of people is very angry about of such chinese smugglers. Chinese did it but guy like ChinaToday can be happy and do some blaming, propaganda on PDF.
 
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ahhahahhahahahha.... ok ,whatever you say dude.

i guess china will succeed in human cloning, because, i dont know how you can solve the fact that men are jerking off due to lack of women.

i supposemit'snot your problem, since you are rich enough to attract women, but i wonder how you will solve your poor farmer's problem. I guess you will do what the communist party do. mjust beat the dissenters into submission.

good luck
LOL at another Korean. Can't even liberate themselves from Western colonialism and worry about other country's gender ratios :lol: South Korea is not wealthier than wealthy parts of China like Beijing, Shanghai and Hong Kong. Averaged together with North Korea, the Korean peninsula as a whole is poorer than the Chinese average.


The Chinese arrested in HCM city
The girls are brought from the western provinces of Mekong delta (where the Minh Huong ethnic are living) to the hotel in HCMC for two Chinese men choose for wives. They are "eye view", the police reported.
21/6, HCM City Police arrested chinese in native citizens Thong A Loc (59 years old, in Tan Phu district), Su Min (43, Tan Binh District), Cen Yibin (41 years), Huang Hui Huang (27 years old , same as the Chinese) to Tan Phu district police continue to investigate the behavior of illegal marriage fraud action.

Ng
We can only take the prettiest Vietnamese girls. And even then they are only suitable for the least desirable of Chinese men.
 
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The human trafficking is illegal in Vietnam. You can read all the comments thereof, opinion of people is very angry about of such chinese smugglers. Chinese did it but guy like ChinaToday can be happy and do some blaming, propaganda on PDF.

that's called "selective enforcement".
 
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LOL at another Korean. Can't even liberate themselves from Western colonialism and worry about other country's gender ratios :lol: South Korea is not wealthier than wealthy parts of China like Beijing, Shanghai and Hong Kong. Averaged together with North Korea, the Korean peninsula as a whole is poorer than the Chinese average.


We can only take the prettiest Vietnamese girls. And even then they are only suitable for the least desirable of Chinese men.

that's called "selective enforcement".

Yes, chinese take a prettiest and "selective enforcement" . In the future we can't make difference beetween Chinese and our African friends. The globalization is good.:D

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