You being victim of your own propaganda are unable to either comprehend or digest some facts.....not surprising for any one though. Had you been following the conflict from the start then perhaps you would be more enlightened.
The reality is since you believe that Pak forces intruded into your territory, why didn't your forces carry replied in kind and carry out cross border raids / strikes/ hot pursuits and all other nonsense that you are fed on daily basis.
If your neighbour comes and kills your cow...what do you do ??/......i guess in your case you will go and start fiddling to find out if your neighbour has a pair.