So you give the mother an option but not to a citizen. When Hinduism says "vasudhaiva kutumbakam" its an open mindedness of hindus but when muslims talk of islamic brotherhood they become parochial and fanatic. Can you tell me "standard stances of nationalism" and then we can talk about deviation.
I repeat again...if for sake of nationalism...i have to denounce Hinduism...I do not care...For me...it is not primary part of my life not i put so much of importance of it....if at any point of time Hinduism will teach me that God in Hinudism is important than nationhood...Trust me...my preference will be for my nation rather than any religion...
My standard of nationalism is simple...Take example of Palestine ....For me Palestine issue is a simple liablity for us...Palestine does not offer anything to us that can be negotiated with cuttingg relationship with Israel..and in the same vein...If Nepal , being the only Hindu nation, thinks to trouble India, then i feel , India should consider its best interest with Nepal by taking all the measures to put in into size..
My context of Nepal and Palestine is the preference in which i think or present my thoughts....And i feel most of the Indian who are HIndus have simillar thought...But you will find questionable stance from Indian who are Muslims..related to Palestine issue...That is where the question of nationalism and religion comes to strike each other...There can be other examples too...And again, i should also admit that it might be possible that my perception is wrong and i may be incorrect in my thought too....