Exactly bro, Our religion is the only force that pursues us towards prosperity, and stops us from sins/crimes. ALLAH PAK likes those people who refrain from crimes/sins due to fear of ALLAH PAK or fear of wrath of ALLAH PAK (Jahannum as u mentioned earlier), so no shame in fearing right...Thats what i am saying take guidance from ALLAH both men and women, what he guides us is best for us, so its simple, and not complicated, understand what Islam asks from its followers (men & women) to live a clean, happy life free from crimes, otherwise we will not find solutions of such crimes, the western countries have tried everything, from education to awareness campaigns, strict laws and their swift application/implementation, still not finding peace, still when u see them, when u hear stories of serial rapes in those countries, u r literally stunned, so understand what is wrong in their societies and if we follow their culture, their way of living, their societies, we will definitely end up like them...
just check this video with neutral mind from start to end..
again it goes both ways
men or women both have to compromise on their un islamic lifestyle...simple