Tola is Mob or Group,Tola is also a unit of measurement 10 grams or something
Dhola is used for a beloved one another word would be Mahiya or Mahi.
People can brag about being Jatt,Gujjar,Arian but there is one golden rule in Punjab i.e The size of your brag-o-phagus is directly proportional to the size of your land holding. So if your are Jatt/Arian with 2 acres of land...... in Punjabi society you are pretty shit and tracing your origins to Steppes won't help much
It's your worth that matters not your clans or biradris.