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Pakistani women in abusive marriages in Canada

When you are mistreated and abused and your family tells you to stay their take the abuse it so hurtful. When some of them break free they disown their culture which weaponized their abuse. You should also blame the husband their families who told the wife to stay in the abusive relationship.
yes, she is the gospel of truth for you right? not for me.... I would listen to both sides because giving a verdict .. How is the environment in your family? how is your father? Is he Pakistani?
 
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There are many overseas Pakistani families marrying their children back home....but the numbers are falling dramatically because they have a different mentality which is not always compatible so they are now marrying overseas Pakistanis like themselves.

There use to be like that but now not so much our diaspora is too detached from Pakistan even the least westernized ones like myself will find some of the customs of Pakistan jahlil or foreign and the lack of progress the country has made many diaspora Pakistani men to marry into different Muslim groups like Turks,Arabs and other Asians
 
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It is still not that bad for Pakistani women, as their base is strong and family-oriented, but some of our other Muslim brothers and sisters are in even worse shape like Arabs, Iranians, Blacks, and converts in general.

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I disagree brother I respect your views but I think Pakistani women are the worst among all the Muslim girls funny cause we claim to be "Islamic Republic" it's one thing to talk about the Pakistani diaspora girls but lately the ones coming here the FOBs are just as materialistic snobs hence why 2nd and 3rd gen Pakistani diaspora men laugh when our parents or some random uncles say why don't you get "shaddi" being good boy I nod not to disrespect them but laugh hard when they leave man our parents and uncles have good intentions but they stuck in times don't know how Pakistan has changed since they left more and more Pakistani diaspora men will marry out to Arabs,Turks, Persians, Afghans, Central and East Asians to avoid family politics and sjws I see it happening in bigger numbers now[/QUOTE]

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I think Pakistani men overseas should not be afraid to marry muslim women from other countries (apart from India and probably Bangladesh...too much bad history) ...it will broaden their horizons and make their gene pool stronger
 
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yes, she is the gospel of truth for you right? not for me.... I would listen to both sides because giving a verdict .. How is the environment in your family? how is your father? Is he Pakistani?

You seem to making personal attacks instead of discussing this issue. Is this discussion getting under your skin ? if yes then Why ?
 
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I disagree brother I respect your views but I think Pakistani women are the worst among all the Muslim girls funny cause we claim to be "Islamic Republic" it's one thing to talk about the Pakistani diaspora girls but lately the ones coming here the FOBs are just as materialistic snobs hence why 2nd and 3rd gen Pakistani diaspora men laugh when our parents or some random uncles say why don't you get "shaddi" being good boy I nod not to disrespect them but laugh hard when they leave man our parents and uncles have good intentions but they stuck in times don't know how Pakistan has changed since they left more and more Pakistani diaspora men will marry out to Arabs,Turks, Persians, Afghans, Central and East Asians to avoid family politics and sjws I see it happening in bigger numbers now

Bro

I think Pakistani men overseas should not be afraid to marry muslim women from other countries (apart from India and probably Bangladesh...too much bad history) ...it will broaden their horizons and make their gene pool stronger[/QUOTE]

I actually trying to imply that I am kinda leaning on doing that issue is family politics is preventing me from doing that tho its hypocritical since I am mixed myself
 
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There are many overseas Pakistani families marrying their children back home....but the numbers are falling dramatically because they have a different mentality which is not always compatible so they are now marrying overseas Pakistanis like themselves.
We still have many families here who think that their spoiled girl or boy would start going in right direction if they import simple shy boy or girl with eastern values :D but it make matter worse especially in case of girls ..I have literally seen couple in Kahmiri families where girl had high education in UK and had great career married to metric pass Pakistani cousins back home. You need different approach to deal with Pakistani women and ABCD woman. What is blessing for one might be restriction for others for example Pakistani woman consider it blessing to stay at home if men take all responsibility of finance while western women will think that you are taking away her work rights if you ask her to stay at home. Our Pakistani women may tolerate certain double standards in society but our ABCD women will never do . They will try to compete with you instead of cooperate
 
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Bro

I think Pakistani men overseas should not be afraid to marry muslim women from other countries (apart from India and probably Bangladesh...too much bad history) ...it will broaden their horizons and make their gene pool stronger

I actually trying to imply that I am kinda leaning on doing that issue is family politics is preventing me from doing that tho its hypocritical since I am mixed myself[/QUOTE]

Osman

We are all mixed somewhere up the gene pool so no stress...relax

But yeh Pakistani families give too much stress
 
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In Canada their are far more abused men than women. It may be hard to believe but it's the truth. We just don't come out and say it because it hurts the so called male ego.
 
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