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People i'm really sorry for ruining this thread.These were definitely not my intentions and i was voluntarily spending time here
ru·in (rn)
n.
1. Total destruction or disintegration, either physical, moral, social, or economic.
2. A cause of total destruction.
3.
a. The act of destroying totally.
b. A destroyed person, object, or building.
4. The remains of something destroyed, disintegrated, or decayed. Often used in the plural: studied the ruins of ancient Greece.
v. ru·ined, ru·in·ing, ru·ins
v.tr.
1. To destroy completely; demolish.
2. To harm irreparably.
3. To reduce to poverty or bankruptcy.
4. To deprive of chastity.
v.intr.
To fall into ruin.
Dimensions117 please forget whatever happened so far and lets not fight anymore.
I was really feeling sorry for you and wanted you to suffer in life(because of your behaviour).
but i have a personal advice to give you.You sound like a Kid.Don't do that.You're a grown man.I have noticed you really like women.And you're so much into them.Learn to respect them as well.It won't let you down trust me.Instead you'll gain twice as much."Offer her a chair" ,, "open her a door" these are some gentleman etiquetts if you learn will never harm you but will help you in the long run.Han bat kero apne friends se jaisey kerte ho ,never mind but if you go around talk to an unknown lady like you did to me ,she'll never like it.
you could say"I'm sorry i didn't get it,please elaborate"
but what you said????ahh well leave it.i hope you understand my point.thank you!
How to Talk to Men
Find out what men like and what men love when it comes to conversation. I hope these tips will help you when it comes to dating...
Men like to think they are leading every conversation and most men love it when they think they're in control! Remember this and talking to men becomes easy!!
It is always a good idea to let the man start a topic of conversation and then you can give your womanly insights later and at points throughout the conversation. When giving your opinion it is good if you can put it in such a way as if you are just supporting his view.
Of course most men like talking about themselves, about their jobs or sports they like and these are perfect topics of conversation for a first date. Most men like it if you show an interest in learning more about his job, and if you Keep showing your interest the conversation may stretch for hours! Sports is another popular topic you can talk to a man about, and every man thinks he knows everything about every sport. All you have to do is make it obvious you are talking to an expert. Most men don’t like to talk about relationships, especially if they have experienced bad ones. Avoiding this topic of conversation is probably a good idea on a first date.
A man always loves a woman who laughs at his jokes, so smiling, laughing occasionally and showing that you are enjoying his company will help the conversation take a natural course. Many men and women become very nervous when talking to the opposite sex so be sure try and help him to relax. He may start the conversation with topics just to impress you, but if you give him the chance, and you both start to feel more comfortable in each other's company you should soon be talking about what you both really like.
So talking to men can be as easy, or difficult as you make it, show interest in whatever they are interested in and the conversation comes naturally. Most men don’t like it if they are told they are wrong, so it's sometimes better to make them realize they're wrong by discussing it from another angle. You don’t need to pretend all the time, the guy you are talking too might be really interesting, so just give them a chance!
zara sheikh......
Ehh dimension117 I think the little story about "how to treat men" you posted actually goes op for couples I think.
Although not entirely true, might be aswell for women who don't exactly know how to hook up with a guy and really need tips.
Either way, I don't think ilovef16 will benefit from these tips, as the articles basic message is that a female needs to "give in" to the opposite sex, and that's not what ilovef16 is looking for I think or wants, regarding most of her posts, it's rather good to see females with a "street fighter" and "gangster attitude" as you described, it adds an extra punch.
It's good especially for Pakistani women regarding emancipation.
Anyway, i'm staying out of this, you guy/girl should ease it a little and just be friends.
P.S: You're posting some very nice pics, all of them are (Pakistani) beauties, we should be proud of that!
Its not ruining. Its called adding a new dimension to the thread.
Ruining on the other hand in the english dictionary refers to:
As u can see this is not the demolition of the thread.
Agreed. I will not reply to your previous posts though they r interesting ones and i have an urge to do so... instead i will just reply to this one.
Congratulations! So the feeling is mutual? Lets celebrate!
Actually I was feeling sorry f4 u because I am sure u were going thru a phase in life, parents shouted at u, freind does'nt like u, angry schoolteacher or sumthing... so u had a mood swing and outpouring of anger and frustration at me. Its something that happens with girls of ur age. Nothing to worry about.
Yes thank you very much for your advice. Next time i'll offer her a chair open a door etc etc.
But you must also understand with that street fighter and female gangster attitude u will get nowhere and u must learn to control your anger. I understand that u have a very difficult life to contend with everyday etc etc but that does'nt mean u cant try?
Also since you have so much advice for the male members of this thread about how they should approach women I will provide some advice on how to approach members of the male community as I find you extremely lacking in this regard. :
You could also talk to a counciller if you are having problems. If you want a number a could give you? There r councillers in Lahore too.
Thankyou very much Dimensions117.Unforunately i don't need your advice as you don't mine.However i see you are presuming a lot while counseling.Every thing you said is untrue.
First of all,I don't have a street fighter image because i don't talk to everyone who passes by or the strangers.My parents never shout at me.They are happily married.and Love each other.They never project their anger over their children.
Approach men?? thanks but no thanks.I never dated anyone, never wanted to aproach anyone.Infact I don't believe in a Girlfriend-boyfriend relationship.
what??? I'm outdated??? oh let me be.I'm proud o'myself for protecting my Family's repute all these years.
Its ok if we dont agree with each other.naturally.its been always like that.
Ohh...I forgot to mention that my teachers never shouted at me either! I was a brilliant student in school,college and the university.i have achieved a firstclass first grade throughout my acadmic career
People dimension said that I'm a churail and everyone who catches a glance will runway.That was really very funny.you have a great sense of humour demi! I'm laughing at it now.A bit late but it happened!.Happy now?
No I like the advice. ILF16 yesterday when i was hanging around "I opened a door", "offered a chair" and offered to give the order while she waited but the girl just thought I was tharki and stared at me for a while and even asked whats wrong. Any advice? And what comes next, dinner by candlelight, kashmiri chai at the cor niche with only me and her looking at the stars and the sound of the waves crashing on the rocks...? Ny ideas?
Oh its not professional counseling rather unreliable... For that u need a counselor whose most likely taken psychology or sociology courses in life...
No but how to talk to guys generally. R u married? Dont you want to learn how you'll talk to your husband or father or fiance? If you wont be able to talk to your husband he'll run away. It happens here in canada. Divorce rate is very very high...
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Perfect student then? Eh? And even done with university too... U must be very old atleast than me. An auntie right? U must be married woman right?
Very much so...
No I like the advice. ILF16 yesterday when i was hanging around "I opened a door", "offered a chair" and offered to give the order while she waited but the girl just thought I was tharki and stared at me for a while and even asked whats wrong. Any advice? And what comes next, dinner by candlelight, kashmiri chai at the cor niche with only me and her looking at the stars and the sound of the waves crashing on the rocks...? Ny ideas?
Sana:
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