No, it's the opposite. In Maluku, Christian first attacked muslim on Eid day in Ambon. - even if you pull it back to Ketapang incident 1998, muslim didn't started it. - From then on it's spread like rapid fire to all Maluku. No muslim would pick Eid to start a war but they will fight back to defend them selves if they have to.
A similar incident, more recent is Tolikara, July 17, 2015, where christian mass attacked muslims who were performing Eid pray.
View Point: Tolikara: Painful for the majority, a reminder for the minority | The Jakarta Post
Western media as usual silent on this, as expected, if the attacker are muslim you'll see the news swarmed the world outlets within minutes.
The Ulema Council of Indonesia has urge Indonesian muslim to avoid any retaliation act in response to Tolikara incident.
MUI urges Muslims to remain peaceful after Tolikara incident | The Jakarta Post
First was Suharto's immediate successor, Habibie issued a decree to remove any distinction and discrimination law created during Suharto regime. Indonesian chinese no longer require a special document to prove their nationality.
During Abdurrahman "Gus Dur" Wahid presidency, he take a step further by encouraged Chinese-Indonesian culture and literature. He also decreed the Chinese lunar New Year as a national holiday.
6th President, Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono agreed to issue Law No. 12/2006 about nationality. It redefined the meaning of Indonesian citizens’ origins. This means a lot for Chinese Indonesians as the law removed the invisible border between indigenous people with those of a Chinese descent.
Today, is common to see Indonesian chinese pursue a career as politician, currently, Ahok - the Governor of Jakarta is the most famous. Even my father was paired with an Indonesian chinese during the candidacy for regency head. They failed but remain a close friend until now.
If you want your desired apology, better ask it from Suharto and his cronies that supported him.
Just because you only cared about money doesn't mean other chinese do too. There are Chinese christians who are fanatic with their religion.
How do I know?.. because I happen to know some of them, mister. A certain mr. J that I know, a proud chinese christian and a wealthy businessman donated his money for Pasukan Merah (Christian force) for them to buy and manufacture firearms (home made guns). He was the neighbor of my aunt. And he's not the only ones. Most christian natives there were either poor fisherman or a lowly PNS, they have the man to fight but not the money.
I grew up in Maluku, from the first day I walk to my high school years. I was there during the peak of the conflict. I know what I'm talking about.
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