True that! Urdu speakers mannerism resembles quite a lot with that of the English. It takes a fine hour of arguing to get into a physical fight.
I think this language renders the benefit of doubt many folds than any local one.
One keeps on guessing should I lose my marbles now or wait for something more harsh to come out of the opponents mouth.
And on the other hand a simple Punjabi phrase like "teno Nazar nae Aanda" could even put a kid in a rage.
Wah kya khoob andaz may biyan kia hy mayra muddah bai nay .... Subhan ALLAH.