And how does it sound, when Allah promises "this number of" women for men? Does it sound OK? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Your innate feeling that promising a certain number of hoors to men is OK, but promising the same number of young, male virgins to women is horrible, stems from your conditioned and inherited notions of male chauvinism.
If men can be bribed with offers of hoors, there is no reason why women cannot be either. Either both are cringeworthy, or neither are.
Yes, definitely men and women are different in many respects. It has nothing to do with west or east. But if you think men are all horny baboons whereas women are not interested in carnal pleasures, all I can say is that you...need to grow up. By nature, women have as much sexual desire as do men.