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Operating empty weight (OEW) is the basic weight of an aircraft including the
crew, all fluids necessary for operation such as engine oil, engine coolant, water, unusable fuel and all operator items and equipment required for flight
but excluding usable fuel and the payload. Also included are certain standard items, personnel, equipment, and supplies necessary for full operations.
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The pilot and the coolants come with the empty weight. Loaded weight is only fuel + weapons/payload, or only fuel.