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India willing to discuss Kashmir with Pakistan: PM

PlanetWarrior and other similar minded friends,

You haven't replied to G-n-R's post.. Why single out Congres only? Didn't BJP also did the same inspite of Kargil, Plane hijacking, Parliament attacks etc? While I agree that the present govt. is also full of jokers, let us not make it a political campaigning.

I would like an answer from you on these ;

Ok tell me first if the government is willing to talk now why did they say that we will not talk unless Pakistan addresses our 26/11 concerns. ??

Why talk about Kashmir when the first demand of the Indian government should be (actually was) talks on Terrorism first ??

Of all the talks held till now, what has come out ?? One single improvement or a sign of co-operation from Pakistan on prosecuting 26/11 perperators ??

Did not this Govt first say Pakistan will not be allowed to interview 26/11 witness ?? Why the change of stance now ?? What has Pakistan done to reciprocate this move ??


IMHO, going ahead with the talks is not a bad idea at all. Rather then doing nothing and allowing the status quo, it is always better to be pro-active in settling ALL border disputes of India.

I don't want India alone to be pro-active and India is in no position to be desperate for talks.


Who says we cannot take the first step? Why cannot we be the one with the bigger heart? After-all if we manage to settle these bloody disputes, it's only going to bring peace and more development for our future generation only. There is a difference between being powerful and being arrogant. With power comes more responsibility.

Bigger heart ?? Shove it somewhere.

Lahore train - Kargil
2006-2008 peace process - Mumbai.

This is what having a big heart has brought to India so far. Sorry to be blunt but Pakistanis dont see such overtures as Peace initiatives, rather they see it as a sign of weakness.

For starters what action have they taken against 26/11 perperators ?? Inspite of dozens and dozens of dossiers sent what action has been taken. Still you want to have a bigger heart ??

There is a huge trust deficit especially on the Indian side and justifiably so. Unless Pakistan takes some concrete steps to address that Talks will only be perceived as weakness.

Welcome to Reality.
 
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Take as many 'first steps'as you want. Have as much a 'bigger heart'as you'd want to...just don't even talk about altering the boundaries. The only solution to Kashmir is a conversion of LoC into international border and allowing free movement of people from both sides.

For anything else, the Pakistanis will have to go to a full scale nuclear war with India.

And what gives you the power to sermon me on what I can speak and what I can not? What is this YOU do this and YOU do that? Nuclear war? How old are you?

Who will guarantee that the miscreants will not create more trouble if we allow free movement along LOC (or your desired IB)? Why should the Kashmiris be devided between two countries? What is their fault? Because Nehru screwed up long time ago, now their houses should be devided? How would you like if your family is forcefully devided? I say we should either take the whole of Kashmir or separate the valley from Ladakh and Jammu and make the valey an autonomus region with combined peacekeepers from both India and Pakistan. Once we reach an consensus on it, we can take Aksai chin back from China too. That's my view and it does not require your approval.

Ever heard of freedom of speech?
 
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Why should the Kashmiris be devided between two countries? What is their fault? Because Nehru screwed up long time ago, now their houses should be devided? How would you like if your family is forcefully devided?

No ones house is divided - you are just exagerating. Its not like the house is on one side and the field is on another side as is sometimes in the case of Indo-BD border.

Nehru screwed once , we must not screw once more.

I say we should either take the whole of Kashmir

You are not grounded in reality.

or separate the valley from Ladakh and Jammu and make the valey an autonomus region with combined peacekeepers from both India and Pakistan.

What happens to the Pakistani Kashmir and Norther Areas ? Without Indian peacekeeprs there I would not want a single Pakistani peacekeeper on Indian soil.

Once we reach an consensus on it, we can take Aksai chin back from China too.

Are you kidding ?? Aksai Chin is vital as it provides a corridor from Tibet to Xinjiang and there is no way in hell China is giving it back.
 
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And what gives you the power to sermon me on what I can speak and what I can not? What is this YOU do this and YOU do that? Nuclear war? How old are you?

Personal attack? Seriously? Trust me you don't wanna do this.

Who will guarantee that the miscreants will not create more trouble if we allow free movement along LOC (or your desired IB)?

Guarantee? What guarantee?

What's the guarantee that Pakistan will stop creating problems for us after Kashmir issue is settled?

What's the guarantee that Pakistanis will cease to support the LeT's, the Dawood Ibrahim's, the Hafiz Sayeed's and their ilk?

What's the guarantee that another kasab will not come to Mumbai spraying bullets?

What's the guarantee?

Why should the Kashmiris be devided between two countries?

Same as why Indian families were divided in 1947. Kashmiris are not special. A partition of India happened in 1947. A partition of Kashmir can once again happen along similar lines.

What is their fault?

What was the fault of my grandparents who had to run to India from Bannu (now in Pakistan) in 1947 leaving behind all their family ties and property and everything?

It happened then, it can happen once again and we'll make sure that this time it happens peacefully i.e. minus the bloodshed of 1947.

Because Nehru screwed up long time ago, now their houses should be devided?

It wasn't Nehru alone. Jinnah was in this as much as Nehru, if not more.

How would you like if your family is forcefully devided?

Oh trust me you have no idea what you're talking about. BTW, like I said, it happened in 1947 and my grandparents were affected then. I see no reason why Kashmiris should be treated any differently.

I say we should either take the whole of Kashmir or separate the valley from Ladakh and Jammu and make the valey an autonomus region with combined peacekeepers from both India and Pakistan.

Combined peacekeepers? Asking the wolf to guard the lamb? Forget it.

Once we reach an consensus on it, we can take Aksai chin back from China too.

lol you think China will give you Aksai chin? Seriously stop living in la la land.

Aksai Chin is gone. We're not getting it. Not unless we fight a war with China and prevail over them and that cannot happen.

So forget Aksai Chin.

That's my view and it does not require your approval.

Sure it doesn't. Your opinion is , well, your opinion and as you might judge from the response of other Indians, including your truly's, you view is not seconded by many.

Ever heard of freedom of speech?

Is that a fruit? No wait, must be something made of chicken...or Turkey?
 
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I would like an answer from you on these ;

You posed questions in reply to questions? Getting a bit defensive, are we?

Ok tell me first if the government is willing to talk now why did they say that we will not talk unless Pakistan addresses our 26/11 concerns. ??

Why talk about Kashmir when the first demand of the Indian government should be (actually was) talks on Terrorism first ??

Of all the talks held till now, what has come out ?? One single improvement or a sign of co-operation from Pakistan on prosecuting 26/11 perperators ??

Did not this Govt first say Pakistan will not be allowed to interview 26/11 witness ?? Why the change of stance now ?? What has Pakistan done to reciprocate this move ??

I don't want India alone to be pro-active and India is in no position to be desperate for talks.

I do agree that these are very valid observation and there might be something deeper then to GOI's sudden change of heart. May be like UNSC seat and it's attached baggages. Various human right violation reports by nutral agencies do add to the pressure when we are trying to secure a permanent UNSC seat and these gesture may be in order to pre-emtively/B] counter those ugly debates when it comes to the discussion table, if you get my drift. I don't need to point you to human right violation reports in a Pakistani forum I hope, so don't ask for it. At least not publicly. I am from Assam born in the seventies, so I can cite inumerable examples in private message if you like.


Bigger heart ?? Shove it somewhere.

Shove it somewhere? Are you a small built kid who was physically bullied everywhere that you have to bring these unnecessary aggression to each of your internet posts? Haven't your Hindu upbringing taught you to be humble and respectful towards your elders? Chant some Bhagwat-Gita man!! Anger is everyone's enemy, so the Gita says. What can I say it response. Perhaps you can shove your two penny agression to whosever behind you want to. Please don't tell me to shove anything anywhere. If you can manage to debate in a civil manner, do continue. I'll be happy to continue. Heck, I'll even accept that I was wrong if you can convince me so. But do keep aside your worthless agression for time when we meet face to face.

Lahore train - Kargil
2006-2008 peace process - Mumbai.

This is what having a big heart has brought to India so far. Sorry to be blunt but Pakistanis dont see such overtures as Peace initiatives, rather they see it as a sign of weakness.

For starters what action have they taken against 26/11 perperators ?? Inspite of dozens and dozens of dossiers sent what action has been taken. Still you want to have a bigger heart ??

There is a huge trust deficit especially on the Indian side and justifiably so. Unless Pakistan takes some concrete steps to address that Talks will only be perceived as weakness.

There is even greater trust deficit in Pakistani's mind who even see India's hand in TTP violences. Call it in-security or proverbial defensiveness. But there is trust deficit on both side. and I agree that we are going in circles as you had aptly pointed out. But guess what, I still want to have the bigger heart. Coz we are bigger and stronger of the two. They have reason for their insecurity, but we don't. With this powers, there comes our responsibility to make the region better for our future generation. It does not make me weak, because we are not at all competing with Pakistan. At least not anymore. In terms of economy and military power, we are way ahead and the whole world knows it. I don't have to come to a pakistani forum and explain it to you ('coz now I'll be in bad books of the Pakistani members for being arrogant.. lol). But by taking the first step, we will only be seen as the good guy in the global scenario. You have to step aside from India-Pakistan stand point and see it in the bigger picture. We don't want to be like the US, powerful yet arrogant. We can be powerful yet friendly and non-alligned.

Welcome to Reality.

Perhaps you should do a reality check yourself first. But again thanks for you sermon.
 
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Bottom line boundries will not be redrawn but the LOC can be made insignificant by opening up for trade and movement of people.
 
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You posed questions in reply to questions? Getting a bit defensive, are we?

If you had cared to read the thread from the start, this questions were asked in my first post, but still no answer.


I do agree that these are very valid observation and there might be something deeper then to GOI's sudden change of heart. May be like UNSC seat and it's attached baggages. Various human right violation reports by nutral agencies do add to the pressure when we are trying to secure a permanent UNSC seat and these gesture may be in order to pre-emtively/B] counter those ugly debates when it comes to the discussion table, if you get my drift. I don't need to point you to human right violation reports in a Pakistani forum I hope, so don't ask for it. At least not publicly. I am from Assam born in the seventies, so I can cite inumerable examples in private message if you like.


Wow quite an explanation almost drifting into the realm of conspiracy theories.

If you think UNSC seat is coming anytime soon sorry to burst your bubble ; it will take another 5 years at the very minimum and even then it is not sure if veto power is included in the package

What human rights violations you are talking about ? HRV happen in all insurgency hit areas and they are just unavoidable when a section of the local population supports the terrorists.

Why is there no HRV in Jammu or Ladakh and cases are reported only from Valley. It is precisely for this reason.

And even then many violations that are done by insurgents are conveniently blamed on Sec forces to blame them. An example is how the Sec forces were said to be responsible for the death od Separatist leaders like Mirwaiz Farooq which now has been exposed to be the handwork of Pak backed Militants.

And all the neutral agencies maintain that PaK is much more rights violation-prone than IaK. While the Pakistanis can maintain a straight face ; why cant India. ??


Shove it somewhere? Are you a small built kid who was physically bullied everywhere that you have to bring these unnecessary aggression to each of your internet posts? Haven't your Hindu upbringing taught you to be humble and respectful towards your elders? Chant some Bhagwat-Gita man!! Anger is everyone's enemy, so the Gita says. What can I say it response. Perhaps you can shove your two penny agression to whosever behind you want to. Please don't tell me to shove anything anywhere. If you can manage to debate in a civil manner, do continue. I'll be happy to continue. Heck, I'll even accept that I was wrong if you can convince me so. But do keep aside your worthless agression for time when we meet face to face.

Yeah I am angry that this stupid Govt is grovelling before Pakistan when no reciprocatory steps have been done on the other side.


There is even greater trust deficit in Pakistani's mind who even see India's hand in TTP violences. Call it in-security or proverbial defensiveness. But there is trust deficit on both side. and I agree that we are going in circles as you had aptly pointed out.

I can't be responsible for Pakistanis' insecurity that is based on Zaid Hamid's interviews

If they can produce a solid proof I will agree till then I wont.

But guess what, I still want to have the bigger heart. Coz we are bigger and stronger of the two. They have reason for their insecurity, but we don't. With this powers, there comes our responsibility to make the region better for our future generation. It does not make me weak, because we are not at all competing with Pakistan. At least not anymore. In terms of economy and military power, we are way ahead and the whole world knows it. I don't have to come to a pakistani forum and explain it to you ('coz now I'll be in bad books of the Pakistani members for being arrogant.. lol). But by taking the first step, we will only be seen as the good guy in the global scenario. You have to step aside from India-Pakistan stand point and see it in the bigger picture. We don't want to be like the US, powerful yet arrogant. We can be powerful yet friendly and non-alligned.

Relations in the 21st century don't go by hearts.They go by interests.

And to sum up my views ; If India is seen as arrogant in not talking with Pakistan so be it. But unless there are some concrete steps from Pakistani side to address Indian concerns vis-a-vis Mumbai I am dead opposed to any talks.

This is the problem with Indians - they should seriously get down from their moral high ground and get in touch with reality.Reciprocate what the other nation shows you - if its friendship show friendship , if its hostility show them the double.

That is how successful nations deal - with a big head and big attitude - not with big heart especially if the other nation sees the big heart as a weakness.
 
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By binging in nuclear war unilaternally into the discussion, you had actualy forefitted the right for a debate with me. ut since you bring some valid points I am going to reply.

Personal attack? Seriously? Trust me you don't wanna do this.

Well you thought I had treaded on personal attack, I apologige. I was actually genuinly asking about you age. I am not the kind to deal with personal attacks in a internet forum. I does not prove that my D**k is bigger then someone else. That I keep for when we meet physically.

Guarantee? What guarantee?

What's the guarantee that Pakistan will stop creating problems for us after Kashmir issue is settled?

What's the guarantee that Pakistanis will cease to support the LeT's, the Dawood Ibrahim's, the Hafiz Sayeed's and their ilk?

What's the guarantee that another kasab will not come to Mumbai spraying bullets?

What's the guarantee?

And how your proposed solution of making the LOC porous solve these doubts? It'll be still there. Like Karthik said, it is more relevant to reduce the trust deficit then to wag nuclear tail. If we can manage to reduce the trust deficit on both sides, these uncertainity will also reduce to a great extent.

Same as why Indian families were divided in 1947. Kashmiris are not special. A partition of India happened in 1947. A partition of Kashmir can once again happen along similar lines.

What was the fault of my grandparents who had to run to India from Bannu (now in Pakistan) in 1947 leaving behind all their family ties and property and everything?

It happened then, it can happen once again and we'll make sure that this time it happens peacefully i.e. minus the bloodshed of 1947.

Are you kidding me. While I do symphatize with your grand parent's ordeal, it is no reason that someone else should also go through the same ordeal. You with your background should realize it even more. Specially if there is other possible solution available, I believe Kashmiris should not be divided. During India-Pakistan partition, the devide was because of religion. The people had to migrate because they belonged to different religion. (I hope you do appreciate that people from our side also had to migrate.) On what basis you want to divide the Kashmiri people?

It wasn't Nehru alone. Jinnah was in this as much as Nehru, if not more.

That's for some other thread to discuss.

Oh trust me you have no idea what you're talking about. BTW, like I said, it happened in 1947 and my grandparents were affected then. I see no reason why Kashmiris should be treated any differently.

Like I said, just because you grand parent suffered, you want others to suffer the same ordeal too?

Combined peacekeepers? Asking the wolf to guard the lamb? Forget it.

Again this comes from the trust deficit and we are in such pathetic condition that we cannot even trust COMBINED peacekeepers.

lol you think China will give you Aksai chin? Seriously stop living in la la land.

Aksai Chin is gone. We're not getting it. Not unless we fight a war with China and prevail over them and that cannot happen.

So forget Aksai Chin.

Well I may be wrong. But as per Pakistan's agreement with China, once Kashmir dispute is solved, China has to return Aksai Chin. Again, I may be wrong, but it can be brought to international tribunal once Kashmir dispute is put to rest.

Sure it doesn't. Your opinion is , well, your opinion and as you might judge from the response of other Indians, including your truly's, you view is not seconded by many.

Well, what can I say.. Do ride the high horse here.

Is that a fruit? No wait, must be something made of chicken...or Turkey?

No comments. Coz this line of debate will only deteriorate the level of discussion. So once again, apology if I had treaded on any personal attack line. It was not intended. :cheers:
 
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No ones house is divided - you are just exagerating. Its not like the house is on one side and the field is on another side as is sometimes in the case of Indo-BD border.

Still its a divide. Even if it was a divide between two provinces, it was somewhat acceptable, same people's division between two countries is asking for future trouble and lot of hearache amongst the particular community. It'll be like diving Assamese between India and Bangladesh, which surely will never be acceptable to me.

Nehru screwed once , we must not screw once more.

100% agreed. But the question is what are the paths we should avoid in order not to screw up again.

You are not grounded in reality.

Again, as I have told you, I may be wrong. But you either have to convince me or you have to put up with my views. Just merely repeating that I am wrong is not going to change any REALITY.

What happens to the Pakistani Kashmir and Norther Areas ? Without Indian peacekeeprs there I would not want a single Pakistani peacekeeper on Indian soil.

I meant the entire Kahmir valley (including AJK & northern areas). We certainly cannot be partial and it has to be a solution to the entire former-princely state (including Aksai chin).

Are you kidding ?? Aksai Chin is vital as it provides a corridor from Tibet to Xinjiang and there is no way in hell China is giving it back.

See my reply to The HBS Guy.

I didnot know that Aksai Chin is used as a corridor between Tibet and Xinjiang. Could you send me some literature on it?

I thought China is changing its policy as far as connectivity to Tibet goes. They are establishing connectivity from eastern Tibbet, over the mighty Himalayas. I may be wrong.
 
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Still its a divide. Even if it was a divide between two provinces, it was somewhat acceptable, same people's division between two countries is asking for future trouble and lot of hearache amongst the particular community. It'll be like diving Assamese between India and Bangladesh, which surely will never be acceptable to me.

Opinions of individual people were never asked when the present borders were established. And never should/will be in the future.

I ll be blunt - Borders must not change ; if the Kashmiris are comfortable living in India they are more than welcome to live as Indian citizens- if they are not comfortable they can liquidate their assets and move over to PaK or any other country.

Again, as I have told you, I may be wrong. But you either have to convince me or you have to put up with my views. Just merely repeating that I am wrong is not going to change any REALITY.

Any notion of getting back PaK and NA from Pakistan is not grounded in reality. How am I supposed to gift wrap that in words as to not offend you ?


I meant the entire Kahmir valley (including AJK & northern areas). We certainly cannot be partial and it has to be a solution to the entire former-princely state (including Aksai chin).

Not possible because of the changed demographics on the PaK side with the Punjabis being extremely hostile to India.

Why is that no body thinking let India keep the aprt in tis control ; let Pakistan keep the kashmir in its posession. Problem solved.


I didnot know that Aksai Chin is used as a corridor between Tibet and Xinjiang. Could you send me some literature on it?

I thought China is changing its policy as far as connectivity to Tibet goes. They are establishing connectivity from eastern Tibbet, over the mighty Himalayas. I may be wrong.

These observations were given by Joe Shearer in the Arunachal Pradesh thread and he had explained it in detail. Perhaps that can help you.

In short no nation(India,China,Pakistan) is giving the other nation its territory.
 
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By binging in nuclear war unilaternally into the discussion, you had actualy forefitted the right for a debate with me. ut since you bring some valid points I am going to reply.

Right to debate with you? Stop patronizing me.

My point is simple:

1. We treat Kashmir as an integral part of India. Have no doubt about that.

2. Keeping point 1 in mind, it behooves us to protect Kashmir with as much zeal and resources as we'd protect Chandigarh or New Delhi. Nuclear weapons are the pinnacle of that zeal. We will not let go of Kashmir. If the Pakistanis want Kashmir, they will have to fight another war with us just like in 1947 and 1965 and, mind you, this time a full blown war will most probably turn nuclear.


Well you thought I had treaded on personal attack, I apologige. I was actually genuinly asking about you age. I am not the kind to deal with personal attacks in a internet forum. I does not prove that my D**k is bigger then someone else. That I keep for when we meet physically.

Let's drink to that.

And how your proposed solution of making the LOC porous solve these doubts? It'll be still there.

Yes of course these doubts will still be there and that gives us an even stronger reason to approach any solution that compromises on our territorial integrity with added caution.

That means we have little to look forward to even after resolving Kashmir, as far as security matters are concerned. So why should we compromise?

Like Karthik said, it is more relevant to reduce the trust deficit then to wag nuclear tail.

Of course it is. Nobody's threatening Pakistan with nukes. Not unless they attack us wit the objective of capturing Kashmir. We have a defensive no-first use policy, remember?

If we can manage to reduce the trust deficit on both sides, these uncertainty will also reduce to a great extent.

Trust deficit built over decades cannot reduce overnight. It has to be done in a staggered fashion. Let's start with the smaller issue first like trade etc. Kashmir is a complex issue and hence that shouldn't be allowed to hold the whole gamut of bilateral ties hostage. Kashmir will take time to be solved.

And as far as solution of Kashmir is concerned, we will not compromise on our territorial integrity. Let's be realistic. Pakistan will not give us back or give independence to the territory it has neither will we. Then what's the solution left? Converting LoC into international border by which I mean a porous border allowing free movement of people from both sides i.e. making the border irrelevant without compromising on the territorial integrity.

Are you kidding me. While I do symphatize with your grand parent's ordeal, it is no reason that someone else should also go through the same ordeal. You with your background should realize it even more. Specially if there is other possible solution available, I believe Kashmiris should not be divided.

You misunderstood me. I did not mean to say, 'Kashmiris should be made to undergo the same suffering as my grandparents and as millions of other Indians in 1947.'. What I meant was, 'There's nothing special about Kashmir or Kashmiris and if a partition of India could happen in 1947, a partition of Kashmir could also happen once again along similar lines'.

Look my point is simple:

1. Convert LoC into international border and a porous one at that.

2. Allow people to move freely. Let there be more people to people contacts on both sides.

During India-Pakistan partition, the devide was because of religion. The people had to migrate because they belonged to different religion. (I hope you do appreciate that people from our side also had to migrate.) On what basis you want to divide the Kashmiri people?

On the basis of an existing LoC. BTW, you might be aware of the ethnic diversity of J&K and you might also be aware that not all of people/ethnicities in J&K want independence or accession to Pakistan.

That's for some other thread to discuss.

Sure.

Like I said, just because you grand parent suffered, you want others to suffer the same ordeal too?

Not because of that but because it is possible and the example (of 1947) is in front of us. But of course I do agree that it must be ensured to be minus the bloodshed.

Again this comes from the trust deficit and we are in such pathetic condition that we cannot even trust COMBINED peacekeepers.

Yes we cannot trust them. The example of Afghanistan (ISI and US co-operation) is in front of you. Any such 'combined peacekeepers' will not work. Besides, like I said, we treat Kashmir as an integral part of India and we will not allow Pakistani boots on our soil.

Well I may be wrong. But as per Pakistan's agreement with China, once Kashmir dispute is solved, China has to return Aksai Chin. Again, I may be wrong, but it can be brought to international tribunal once Kashmir dispute is put to rest.

I've been taught one thing and I'll share that with you.

Your company sells a product to person X on credit i.e. on deferred payment. Person X promises to pay you after six months. Fine so far, but you cannot show this transaction in your 'sales' unless the person X actually pays you.

Moral of the story?

Do not count on something you're not sure of.

Well, what can I say.. Do ride the high horse here.

Majority wins. It's called democracy.

No comments. Coz this line of debate will only deteriorate the level of discussion. So once again, apology if I had treaded on any personal attack line. It was not intended. :cheers:

Let's drink to that. :cheers:
 
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If you had cared to read the thread from the start, this questions were asked in my first post, but still no answer.

My apologies. I did read from start, but I guess I faltered with the basic human nature of only seeing the part which sooths my eyes and not seeing our own faults. As I have already said, your were very valid observations.

Wow quite an explanation almost drifting into the realm of conspiracy theories.

If you think UNSC seat is coming anytime soon sorry to burst your bubble ; it will take another 5 years at the very minimum and even then it is not sure if veto power is included in the package

Well, as i am not close to GOI's foreigh policy makers, I can only speculate on these internet debates. If it sounded like conspiracy theory to you (do mind the two fingered gesture of mine when I said conspiracy theory), you are welcome to think so. But yes, it was purely speculative crap from my side.

What human rights violations you are talking about ? HRV happen in all insurgency hit areas and they are just unavoidable when a section of the local population supports the terrorists.

Why is there no HRV in Jammu or Ladakh and cases are reported only from Valley. It is precisely for this reason.

And even then many violations that are done by insurgents are conveniently blamed on Sec forces to blame them. An example is how the Sec forces were said to be responsible for the death od Separatist leaders like Mirwaiz Farooq which now has been exposed to be the handwork of Pak backed Militants.

And all the neutral agencies maintain that PaK is much more rights violation-prone than IaK. While the Pakistanis can maintain a straight face ; why cant India. ??

You either don't know the ground reality or have chosen to ignore innocent civilian's suffering for no apparant fault of them. They suffer even if they don't support insurgency. Trust me on this one.

And just because someone else has done/ doing wrong does not give me the right to do the same mistake.

Yeah I am angry that this stupid Govt is grovelling before Pakistan when no reciprocatory steps have been done on the other side.

I can appreciate your anger, but showing magnanomity does not make one weak and grovelling. One does not have to shout and shove to show that one is stronger. If we are stronger (which we actually are), everyone will know it even without our shouting and shoving.

I can't be responsible for Pakistanis' insecurity that is based on Zaid Hamid's interviews

If they can produce a solid proof I will agree till then I wont.

You got me wrong here. Their insecurity does not come from ZH, but from our economic boom and military prowess. It is a known fact now that India cannot be made to accept anything she does not want to accept. We are way past that phase. Even these L-e-T, H-M, stone throwing craps are going to die its natural death soon. If not for any other reason, then for want of funds. I'll not explain this further here.

Relations in the 21st century don't go by hearts.They go by interests.

And to sum up my views ; If India is seen as arrogant in not talking with Pakistan so be it. But unless there are some concrete steps from Pakistani side to address Indian concerns vis-a-vis Mumbai I am dead opposed to any talks.

This is the problem with Indians - they should seriously get down from their moral high ground and get in touch with reality.Reciprocate what the other nation shows you - if its friendship show friendship , if its hostility show them the double.

That is how successful nations deal - with a big head and big attitude - not with big heart especially if the other nation sees the big heart as a weakness.

Well you are welcome to have your view. But to me and my beliefs, humility and improvement personal strength (like greater economic freedom to each and all, great defence capabilities) and peace work even better. Given a choice, I'll always try to settle issues with peaceful measure then aggressive way. Even with hostile oposition. That's what all the religeous and history books have taught me. It's my personal view, not that it is going to change anything with GOI's stand, be it UPA or NDA.
 
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@ Karthik & HBS Guy,

This issue, as complicated as it is, definitely does not have any easy solution as suggested by either me or you guys. While I agree that Karthik's suggestion of giving the people the choice which side they want to live in without altering the present border seem to be a even better solution (with HBS Guy's promised peaceful migration), it certainly is not as easy as it sounds.

But in order to evaluate and eventualy implement one of these various permutaion and combinations, it is important to go ahead with the talks rather then maintaining status quo. We cannot and shouldnot continue to live with an issue as cancerous as Kashmir and there is no shame in trying to try whether radiotherapy, chemotherapy, surgery or combination of all of these is required to get rid of the carcinoma.

If we can can make some break through with any of the various suggested solutions, it will eventually bring down all the related problems. and in my books, taking the first step (again and again) towards a peaceful solution (even with a hostile oposition) is and cannot be seen as a weak step. It would have been in 1990, but not in 2011.

Now keeping in mind that there will be no end to discussion on Kashmir, I'll try to refrain myself from posting any more on this issue. Thanks for you genuine and valuable inputs. I learned a lot from you guys. :cheers:
 
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