Look my friend,debating with them is like talking to a wall. This will be always your fault no matter what. You intervene in a muslim country and you are doomed and cursed. You don't intervene in a muslim country we are doomed and cursed,they are asking where are we and why we don't intervene in front of an uncoming massacre. (Which was the case in Libya)
Don't interfere in places which have nothing to do with you. You reserve the right to bomb and murder innocents, replace governments, support dictators or terrorist groups, and put sanctions on these countries.
Simple solution: Stop creating more refugees.
West is foolish and unbelievable, they have high standards of living (from historical monopolies) and relatively stable politics, but they want to throw all of this away for ideological wars against impoverished and weak Muslim/Christian countries in Africa, Eastern Europe, Middle East, Asia, and Latin America, South America.
These people do not know how to live in peace with anyone, they are their own worst enemies.
If they don't want refugees headed their way, backtrack on their own rhetoric of freedom, land of opportunity, best country of the world, and accept the selfish, racist nature of their civilizations.
I would personally not advise any sensible person to immigrate to these fascist in waiting countries.
Plenty of people in Pakistan are over their love affair with the US and Europe, and now many people refuse to even consider immigration abroad. We are not blind to Trump, Brexit, and France. I am quite happy to see it.