I agree, people should focus on nation building on both sides of the border. Not blame game, loss of productivity and negative politics. At least, in India, you don't have violent sit-ins threatening the government to go every few months when the crazy heads go manic due to their mental issues and extremist ideologies.
Also, people's quality of life is increased by creating jobs and that's easily done in a country like Pakistan, Philippines, Nigeria, and Mexico, by creating the infrastructure. Infrastructure built modern and properly ensures ongoing economic growth (specially in the case of Pakistan with CPEC, etc). Then, the jobs are being created. The Wall Street estimates that there will be a $ 1 trillion housing industry by 2020 in Pakistan. That's huge and they expect some REIT, and ETF's to come out of Pakistan, along with about two dozen public companies, which would benefit from this growth. Meaning hundreds of thousands of new jobs. This will help Pakistan expand her tax net, government revenue and spending on proper places, and will start to reduce the extremism as people will get busy in making $$$$ due to the opportunity and naturally, science, technology from good schools will become preferred education. So maddrassas will lose their place from the distant rural areas.
This strategy has started to work already and will work. One of the SOLE reasons why I am supportive of Pakistan's growth, vs. others who want to pull legs to steal the show and put their name on the economy as its nearing serious growth. This is why I preach "stability" here. But in Pakistan, these leaders are used to stealing power, not following the constitution. And they are hurting their own country without a reason by hampering her growth!!