Father passed away

[Shahzaz ud din]

 

[khail007]

Inna-Lillah-i-wa-inna-alaihi-rajeoon.
May ALLAH SWT bless the departed soul with kindness and JANNAH.
Patience to you and whole family - Ameen.

 

[hunter_hunted]

May Allah bless with highest rank in Jannah al firsous ameen

What happened ?

Heart Attack, He had diabetes since last two decades but he kept it under control but for some reason he was not able to eat much in his last days , i guess Allah was preparing him for next journey. A good man we lost that day from which my family will never recover.

So, pray for him as much as you can , fast for him, do charity, and every Friday go visit his grave and if you are passing by his final resting place go and say salam.

رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

 

[atya]

Prayers

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon. I'm sorry for your loss. May Allah SWT grant him the highest abode in Jannah ul Firdous ameen

 

[Ivan]

Rest in peace.
May Allah accept his repentance and award him with the highest ranks of Janat ul Firdous, while give you patience to bear this loss.

 

[StormBreaker]

It hurts too much,

Never knew this is what a loss of parent feels like, A father who works tirelessly to raise their children with no personal end interests, Just to pass away when his child is almost on his feet and about to retire him, This is what makes me regret.

I think I have lost all motivation for life, My father was my motivation, To become an independent person so that I can retire him and return him the favors he did all life.

Now I am thinking, How will I spend the rest of my life without him, Someday I will get married but a lack of father will keep me isolated as man can only understand a man, not a wife. Then someday I will have kids maybe, I will cry wondering if he had ever seen my kids in life. Then I will grow old and yet I will remember the words and memories of my father.

Life is such a terrible dream, A bubble, You never know what is in for surprise the very next moment. But then again,

Life is nothing but a temporary prison for muslims, You have to move on and bear it, Keep going on, To get success in hereafter.

I cry thinking how my father would be lonely in a dark pit, All alone, While I am not beside him.

All I can do is do dhikr and recite Quran and Pray nawafils for him or give sadaqah.

DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY TIPS TO MEET DECEASED PARENT IN DREAM ?

@Mangus Ortus Novem @MastanKhan

 

[Mangus Ortus Novem]

It hurts too much,

Never knew this is what a loss of parent feels like, A father who works tirelessly to raise their children with no personal end interests, Just to pass away when his child is almost on his feet and about to retire him, This is what makes me regret.

I think I have lost all motivation for life, My father was my motivation, To become an independent person so that I can retire him and return him the favors he did all life.

Now I am thinking, How will I spend the rest of my life without him, Someday I will get married but a lack of father will keep me isolated as man can only understand a man, not a wife. Then someday I will have kids maybe, I will cry wondering if he had ever seen my kids in life. Then I will grow old and yet I will remember the words and memories of my father.

Life is such a terrible dream, A bubble, You never know what is in for surprise the very next moment. But then again,

Life is nothing but a temporary prison for muslims, You have to move on and bear it, Keep going on, To get success in hereafter.

I cry thinking how my father would be lonely in a dark pit, All alone, While I am not beside him.

All I can do is do dhikr and recite Quran and Pray nawafils for him or give sadaqah.

DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY TIPS TO MEET DECEASED PARENT IN DREAM ?

@Mangus Ortus Novem @MastanKhan

My dearest Shahzade,

I have no words... this is a pain you shall have to bear alone...and carry it alone... both memories and loss.

Only Allah can give you Sabr and inner Peace.

You are doing right by reciting Quran... keep doing it...and let Allah be your Guid and Friend.

I am just deeply saddened by your loss... one after another....

We all come from Him...with His Leave we live here...and with His Will... we depart...

My time shall come too...

I shall pray for you!

Mangus

 

[Pakistani Fighter]

It hurts too much,

Never knew this is what a loss of parent feels like, A father who works tirelessly to raise their children with no personal end interests, Just to pass away when his child is almost on his feet and about to retire him, This is what makes me regret.

I think I have lost all motivation for life, My father was my motivation, To become an independent person so that I can retire him and return him the favors he did all life.

Now I am thinking, How will I spend the rest of my life without him, Someday I will get married but a lack of father will keep me isolated as man can only understand a man, not a wife. Then someday I will have kids maybe, I will cry wondering if he had ever seen my kids in life. Then I will grow old and yet I will remember the words and memories of my father.

Life is such a terrible dream, A bubble, You never know what is in for surprise the very next moment. But then again,

Life is nothing but a temporary prison for muslims, You have to move on and bear it, Keep going on, To get success in hereafter.

I cry thinking how my father would be lonely in a dark pit, All alone, While I am not beside him.

All I can do is do dhikr and recite Quran and Pray nawafils for him or give sadaqah.

DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY TIPS TO MEET DECEASED PARENT IN DREAM ?

@Mangus Ortus Novem @MastanKhan

Don't worry Brother. INSHALLAH you will meet him everyday in Jannah. This life is temporary. The Life After Death is Permanent.

 

[PakAlp]

إِنَّا لِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ‎,

May Allah azzawajal grant them Jannatul Firdous and give yourself and family sabr.

Keep in mind death is not the end for us, we believe in life after death, the true life. InshaAllah you will meet your beloved father in the after life. Ameen

 

[farok84]

Prayers

Sincere condolences to you and bereaving family.

May the departed rest in eternal peace.

 

[Sheikh Rauf]

May Allah forgive his sins and grant him jannat.(ameen)

 

[baqai]

إِنَّا لِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ

i have been through this ... twice, yes i have lost both my folks and let me tell you something bro, words are not going to heal, people WILL say stuff out of courtesy but they don't understand the pain you are going through, the same applies for me right now, i am typing this message while being sorry for your loss i cannot put myself in your shoes but can relate to a similar situation, just be strong, only time will heal

 

[StormBreaker]

إِنَّا لِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ

i have been through this ... twice, yes i have lost both my folks and let me tell you something bro, words are not going to heal, people WILL say stuff out of courtesy but they don't understand the pain you are going through, the same applies for me right now, i am typing this message while being sorry for your loss i cannot put myself in your shoes but can relate to a similar situation, just be strong, only time will heal

Yes,

Thank you a lot for understanding. There is a ritual Babur did to save Humayun while the doctors gave up on him, He circled 3 times and said “If death is written for him, I shall have it in place if him”, Although this Has no significance in Islam,
If only I knew that stroke would happen, I would have done that for my dad in hope that the Almighty Exaulted would accept me for death while cure my dad.

But the news came out as a surprise, I will post complete story after somedays.

 

[baqai]

just don't blame yourself, if i had not chosen to go to my bedroom after having breakfast with my mum i would have noticed her fainting and passing out (she was diabetic and had heart attack while sleeping), if i was not out at office lunch on sunday i would have been able to take my dad in time to hospital most probably

these IF's and WHAT IF's haunted me, with time i got in better frame set of mind

 

[El Sidd]

Yes,

Thank you a lot for understanding. There is a ritual Babur did to save Humayun while the doctors gave up on him, He circled 3 times and said “If death is written for him, I shall have it in place if him”, Although this Has no significance in Islam,
If only I knew that stroke would happen, I would have done that for my dad in hope that the Almighty Exaulted would accept me for death while cure my dad.

But the news came out as a surprise, I will post complete story after somedays.

You are his Sadqa e Jariya. You are his shadow.

Inshallah you will also have his strength.

Uncle is now in a much better place after leaving this world a better place.