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Thanks for clearing up as usual and I did not think such a simple thing as wedding gift would be such a big deal. However I am still confused behind the rationale of bride giving the dowry/wedding gift instead of the other way around since in the old days people considered women commodities sadly so this is strange of women giving dowry. I know I am being slightly sexist but doesn't it make the male look pathetic asking for the gift in contrast to wife, I mean they should feel some form of shame asking for imo.
Also small question with respect to personal faith, isn't this practice slightly contradictory to the islamic faith as it certainly does have huge implications on the women's personal being.
Read this wiki page on dowry.... its more to do with the girl leaving parents home and living with boy's parents in a patriarchial society. Buying bride is specific to only arab culture I think.
Here is a list of countries that practice dowry. In Indian subcontinent, its mostly local culture . Even though predominantly hindus/buddists converted they did not change practices.
Dowry - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia