Divorce at marriage ceremony

[Dubious]

Advice is a noun. Advise a verb. Didn't you learn basic English before moving to the UK?

Seriously talking about personal...Mind you no one READS English half the population cant spell properly thanks to autocorrect....Those who speak or TYPE carefully, we know they arent Native to the language

 

[doppelganger]

What sh1t? Did I say ANYTHING BAD? Dowry is in Hinduism....so unless you say your religion is full of sh1t ....

Shame on you...Instead of clearing misconceptions you go personal!

You are acting holier than thou about Hinduism when the views and attitudes of your own religion towards women suck big time, acknowledged by every religion and nationality across the world.

How hypocritical is that? Shame on you I say.

Seriously talking about personal...Mind you no one READS English half the population cant spell properly thanks to autocorrect....Those who speak or TYPE carefully, we know they arent Native to the language

Just pointing out an error. No biggie. You being in the UK must be already more Brit than the Queen by now, native and all. Was watching some hilarious desi reruns on BBC (Comedy TV) just last night. Citizen Khan. You remind me of one of the daughters .....

 

[Dubious]

You are acting holier than thou about Hinduism when the views and attitudes of your own religion towards women suck big time, acknowledged by every religion and nationality across the world.

How hypocritical is that? Shame on you I say.

Sigh...point out from the Quran or forever hold your tongue

Just pointing out an error. No biggie. You being in the UK must be already more Brit than the Queen by now, native and all. Was watching some hilarious desi reruns on BBC (Comedy TV) just last night.

Nahh I am myself...I dont need to try to be anyone else

 

[doppelganger]

Sigh...point out from the Quran or forever hold your tongue

Sigh .... look around you. The Koran is a book from medieval times. Look at your people today.

 

[Dubious]

Sigh .... look around you. The Koran is a book from medieval times. Look at your people today.

I can say the same...Not untill you quote from the Quran...your POV is YOUR POV not that of the religion

 

[doppelganger]

I can say the same...Not untill you bring it from the Quran...your POV is YOUR POV not that of the religion

Your religion is judged by the conduct of those who follow it. We do not have time to read a book we do not follow.

The "princesses" bit really slammed into my solar plexus and left me gasping for breath I must admit.

Are these the princesses you are so proud of ?

(enough images available on the net to get me banned, even if the message gets brutally across)

 

[Dubious]

Your religion is judged by the conduct of those who follow it. We do not have time to read a book we do not follow.

I beg your pardon? Says who? Maybe you...but Something is ALWAYS judged by how it is not not how SOMEONE is using it....if someone misuses something you do not blame the thing or system but that individual because THAT is how a just person is....

The "princesses" bit really slammed into my solar plexus and left me gasping for breath I must admit.

Are these the princesses you are so proud of ?

(enough images available on the net to get me banned, even if the message gets brutally across)

Again...If the person is abusing something why blame the thing YOU NEVER READ ABOUT?

Its like saying just coz you met a psycho surgeon you will say ALL DOCTORS are psycho?! That shows IMMATURITY at every level!
@sputnik me liked that satellite name

 

[thesolar65]

Well this kind of news is now common in my state. Now it is the role reversal. Many a times bride refuse to marry on wedding day and on wedding Mandap, if the groom demands dowry, or the groom is marrying second time and bride comes to know abt it in the nick of time, or the groom is drunk etc. And many times the groom gets beaten up. And on a single complaint from the girl entire Grooms family lands in Thana (and now a days some times it is false complaint to settle personal score). But then "Law is Law". But I am happy that dowry deaths have really come down and instead the cases of divorce has raised, but it is better than death.

 

[Dubious]

Well this kind of news is now common in my state. Now it is the role reversal. Many a times bride refuse to marry on wedding day and on wedding Mandap, if the groom demands dowry, or the groom is marrying second time and bride comes to know abt it in the nick of time, or the groom is drunk etc. And many times the groom gets beaten up. And on a single complaint from the girl entire Grooms family lands in Thana (and now a days some times it is false complaint to settle personal score). But then "Law is Law". But I am happy that dowry deaths have really come down and instead the cases of divorce has raised, but it is better than death.

Thank you for an insight into your state...

 

[Bahoz]

Well this kind of news is now common in my state. Now it is the role reversal. Many a times bride refuse to marry on wedding day and on wedding Mandap, if the groom demands dowry, or the groom is marrying second time and bride comes to know abt it in the nick of time, or the groom is drunk etc. And many times the groom gets beaten up. And on a single complaint from the girl entire Grooms family lands in Thana (and now a days some times it is false complaint to settle personal score). But then "Law is Law". But I am happy that dowry deaths have really come down and instead the cases of divorce has raised, but it is better than death.

This is a good life experience. Thank you

 

[Umair Nawaz]

kisnay kaha? Didnt 1 of Prophet's wife divorced her husband?

which one?

 

[Dubious]

which one?

I forgot the name the 1 who was his adopted son's daughter...

Zayd RA wife Zaynab bint Jash

 

[Umair Nawaz]

I forgot the name the 1 who was his adopted son's daughter...

Zayd RA wife Zaynab bint Jash

Oh her.

She actually requested her husband to divorce her as she couldnt handle the fact that she was married to a Ghulam.

But later Prophet Muhammad Married her as Hazrat Zayd was his mubola son. Infact Prophet asked Hazrat Zayd for permission when All Mighty ordered him to marry her so to make an example that Mubola Son,Daughter,Parents can marry each other.

The point from this was u can marry yr relatives who r genetically directly/indirectly not related to u.


She still didnt divorced him, nor is this Bengali social worker is pious enough as Hazrat Zainab used to be.

 

[liontk]

Thanks for clearing up as usual and I did not think such a simple thing as wedding gift would be such a big deal. However I am still confused behind the rationale of bride giving the dowry/wedding gift instead of the other way around since in the old days people considered women commodities sadly so this is strange of women giving dowry. I know I am being slightly sexist but doesn't it make the male look pathetic asking for the gift in contrast to wife, I mean they should feel some form of shame asking for imo.

Also small question with respect to personal faith, isn't this practice slightly contradictory to the islamic faith as it certainly does have huge implications on the women's personal being.

 

[Dubious]

Thanks for clearing up as usual and I did not think such a simple thing as wedding gift would be such a big deal. However I am still confused behind the rationale of bride giving the dowry/wedding gift instead of the other way around since in the old days people considered women commodities sadly so this is strange of women giving dowry. I know I am being slightly sexist but doesn't it make the male look pathetic asking for the gift in contrast to wife, I mean they should feel some form of shame asking for imo.

weak men agree with it and support it

Also small question with respect to personal faith, isn't this practice slightly contradictory to the islamic faith as it certainly does have huge implications on the women's personal being.

It def is!! However, some people prefer culture over religion!