One of the reasons I don't post much is the aggressive attitude, why the anger, why can't discuss things normally????
You might understand English, you might be PhD., but this doesn't mean you understand what's against Quran & Sunnah ---- A qualified Scholar is the one whose opinion will matter and you don't want to sit with him, WHY ; maybe because he will exactly point out the flaws which you don't like to listen?
Islam surely deals with every subject including domestic abuse, there are 1000's of books available, it's just you need some courage to open up books relating to Islamic laws.