Are you Eligible for Marriage?

[Zarvan]

@Zarvan

you never answered my question.
Did you give up?

I don't blame you, I took away your strongest weapon, shaming, so you would have had a hard time going toe to toe with me without it.

Regardless, I respect you as a person and think you are an okay guy

Sir I can't watch the videos Please tell me what are you views on marriage and what are your points than we will have a debate

 

[Rusty]

Sir I can't watch the videos Please tell me what are you views on marriage and what are your points than we will have a debate

My view on marriage is that it's male slavery.
I think Women are equal to men and should work equal to men to earn their money.

I think women should stop acting like they are entitled to men's money.
No woman should ever complain about money unless it is the money she earned.

And I think men should stop being fed by woman and taken care by them.
They should learn to cook, clean and be independent of their mothers/wives.

Also I completely oppose reserved seats for women. If a woman is qualified, she should fight with the men to earn it.
Reserved seats tell me that women are inferior to men and need to be protected. I don't believe this and think women are equal!
But that's not about marriage

I will say this, Pakistan has so far not become a socialist state to the point where there are family courts that destroy men.
The day Pakistan has western style family courts is the day Pakistan as a nation will die.


Also I should put a disclaimed that I have always said that Marriage is a death sentence for men in the west. In Pakistan is just a lifetime sentence.

 

[Zarvan]

My view on marriage is that it's male slavery.
I think Women are equal to men and should work equal to men to earn their money.

I think women should stop acting like they are entitled to men's money.
No woman should ever complain about money unless it is the money she earned.

And I think men should stop being fed by woman and taken care by them.
They should learn to cook, clean and be independent of their mothers/wives.

Also I completely oppose reserved seats for women. If a woman is qualified, she should fight with the men to earn it.
Reserved seats tell me that women are inferior to men and need to be protected. I don't believe this and think women are equal!
But that's not about marriage

I will say this, Pakistan has so far not become a socialist state to the point where there are family courts that destroy men.
The day Pakistan has western style family courts is the day Pakistan as a nation will die.


Also I should put a disclaimed that I have always said that Marriage is a death sentence for men in the west. In Pakistan is just a lifetime sentence.

Sir we Muslims see what are the orders of Islam in this case so in marriage orders are clear main responsibility of earning money is of men and women main duty is to take care of children and home she can work if husbands grants permission and the work place fulfills shariah requirements and women and men should compromise and don't expect huge things from each other through this marriage can work other wise it will create problems because extra expectations are the reason for problems

 

[Rusty]

Sir we Muslims see what are the orders of Islam in this case so in marriage orders are clear main responsibility of earning money is of men and women main duty is to take care of children and home she can work if husbands grants permission and the work place fulfills shariah requirements and women and men should compromise and don't expect huge things from each other through this marriage can work other wise it will create problems because extra expectations are the reason for problems

You are correct, the Islamic way is the best way.
But how many people do you know that honestly follow it?
You live in Pakistan so you might not know this but that Islamic Ideal is impossible to follow in the west.
Even in Pakistan it is difficult to follow.
Every Pakistani woman has a princess complex and thinks the world owes her everything.

For me personally, since I live in the west, marriage is not even an option.
If I lived in Pakistan I might consider it but the woman would have to super special in the sense that she should almost be an alim of Islam so that she knows her role and I know mine.

But it's easier to just stay single, free and use the money you earn on thing you like!

 

[Zarvan]

You are correct, the Islamic way is the best way.
But how many people do you know that honestly follow it?
You live in Pakistan so you might not know this but that Islamic Ideal is impossible to follow in the west.
Even in Pakistan it is difficult to follow.
Every Pakistani woman has a princess complex and thinks the world owes her everything.

For me personally, since I live in the west, marriage is not even an option.
If I lived in Pakistan I might consider it but the woman would have to super special in the sense that she should almost be an alim of Islam so that she knows her role and I know mine.

But it's easier to just stay single, free and use the money you earn on thing you like!

Man You really hate women

 

[Rusty]

Man You really hate women

again with the shaming?
Bro, I already told you, shaming does not work on me.

First time I destroyed you, you tried to shame me and I shut you down.

You asked for a 2nd chance, so I gave it to you and again you resorted to shaming.

Again, I know you are a nice guy but seriously, how smart are you to resort to the same tactic twice and fail?

And once again, I would like to note that you did not give even one counter against my points.

 

[Zarvan]

again with the shaming?
Bro, I already told you, shaming does not work on me.

First time I destroyed you, you tried to shame me and I shut you down.

You asked for a 2nd chance, so I gave it to you and again you resorted to shaming.

Again, I know you are a nice guy but seriously, how smart are you to resort to the same tactic twice and fail?

And once again, I would like to note that you did not give even one counter against my points.

Man Islam is the only way out come to Pakistan you may find really good girl who matches your thoughts and doesn't expect much

 

[Alpha1]

Man Islam is the only way out come to Pakistan you may find really good girl who matches your thoughts and doesn't expect much

i wish @Rusty best of luck

 

[Rusty]

Man Islam is the only way out come to Pakistan you may find really good girl who matches your thoughts and doesn't expect much

The problem is not coming to Pakistan. The problem is leaving.
You bring a woman to Canada or the west and women quickly realize that legally they can control you.
They start doing stupid things and long story short you are out of half your wealth and your income.
Seen it happen to plenty of Pakistani couples.

So like I said, better free and enjoy your wealth then a slave

i wish @Rusty best of luck

My own home, my own car, I can do what I want when I want, yes you should feel pity for me

(btw, your shaming tactics will still not work on me)

 

[Alpha1]

@Rusty i said best of luck! May God give you happiness. Thats all. Im not saying anything else

oh... sorry, I did misunderstand.
You have my strongest apologies.

The problem is that I am too used to dealing with people who have their heads in the sand and think everything is fine now day.

dont be sorry .Its ok you misunderstood. Btw can u describe the video that @Talon sis posted for us? I cant visit utube!

 

[Rusty]

@Rusty i said best of luck! May God give you happiness. Thats all. Im not saying anything else


dont be sorry .Its ok you misunderstood. Btw can u describe the video that @Talon sis posted for us? I cant visit utube!

Man, you really need to work on not sounding sarcastic!
say more things in your post so people know when you are being sarcastic and when you are being genuine.

 

[Alpha1]

Man, you really need to work on not sounding sarcastic!
say more things in your post so people know when you are being sarcastic and when you are being genuine.

ya! My mobile keybord is sucking, cant type much. Have to change the body today!

Btw you are one of my favourite posters.

 

[hassan346]

You work hard what is the gurrantee you will not loose your job or anything else or decrease in your pay Sir read Islam than talk

the chance that i might loose my job or decrease in my pay is minimum but if i stay at home all day all night doing nothing i might die from hunger

 

[Rusty]

ya! My mobile keybord is sucking, cant type much. Have to change the body today!

Btw you are one of my favourite posters.

yeah, typing on phone keyboard sucks.

I'm amusing becuase I know what I am talking about and don't give a crap what others think

 

[Zarvan]

the chance that i might loose my job or decrease in my pay is minimum but if i stay at home all day all night doing nothing i might die from hunger

Sir ALLAH says work hard but still the rizq in his hands he can decrease or increase when he wants so to have few children deliberately is not what Islam teaches is in fact close to shirk