Its helpfulness and nothing else
You need to understand the mindset of
@kongn and other Indians. Their egos are bruised and they feel helpless. They were told that India would absolutely steamroll Pakistan, and set terms on its own. Now they realize, that is not Pakistan and Pakistan's defences are strong enough to withstand any assault from India.
Then they react out by calling Pakistan a beggar state with the irony that their own country is the biggest receiver of foreign aid. They talk about a growing Indian economy, sure it is but its not like Pakistan's economy is contracting. Every time you hear them that we will isolate Pakistan and make into a pariah like North Korea. Then they realize, that's not possible and get angry and lash out.
You need to understand the mindset and mass psychology of the people you're dealing with. Their is utter shame that a country 7X smaller then them can look them in the eye and slap them in the face. In addition, there is also the shame that Western Military Professionals don't regard Indian Armed Forces as high due to their inability in dealing with Pakistan considering the difference in the military budgets.