The ruler of India is not restricted by religion. Every facet of our constitution was designed to not be detrimental to any particular religious group, including Muslims. Your claim of India being anti Muslim by design or intention is laughable. We have better relations with Muslim countries all over the world than Pakistan.
The population argument doesn't matter to Muslims who reside in India or those who fight in our armies. Population distribution is not controlled by individuals alone, they are controlled by history and geography. Islam as a major religion is relatively new in India. Hence the numbers. Nothing can be done about it in a single day.
As for the Muslims in India, I can't speak for them but I can try and put myself in their shoes and let me tell you, the argument "we're attacking you for the honor of our religion, even though we follow the same religion" employed by Pakistan fools no one, benefits no one and drives home the fact that our conflict with Pakistan has absolutely nothing to do with religion.
Syncretism in religion, especially those originating around the same region is a whole another can of worms. Maybe @padamchen is more qualified to talk about Abrahamic religions and their inclusivity than me.
But since when did respecting or appreciating other religions, customs or people be a bad thing?
Bro it is news to me that I am now considered an authority on Abrahamic religions.
I only touch upon them where they impact or get impacted by mine.
Or did you mean something else?
Cheers, Doc