Why Wouldn’t I get Married?

[Zarvan]

So his being an honest and well respected member of society had nothing to do with anything. Only the wars he fought?? Janay day ab .. you are like one messed up individual. God did not surprise him with prophethood, he was destined to be one. The Islam that was spread by the sword collapsed long time ago. A good example would be spain.

I know he was destined to be PROPHET MR but are trying to tell only one thing and hide others Mr those areas which Muslims conquered are all Muslims Area except spain Mr they are around 40 more examples would you like to count even though people were not forced to accept Islam they saw the character and preaching of Muslims which made them convert

 

[Zarvan]

O dear GOD! Please give the full documented explanation too...THAT a man can not say no on no basis...THAT itself is ZULM!
And to give in to a ZALIM is HARAM!

She can say no when she wants to as well, BECAUSE man and woman a equal. Each are better in their own field but NONE should be a dictator over the other! PROPHET NEVER WAS and no man should be!

How come this part of the preaching is ignored?

I have given enough stuff in above posts you can read them lady

 

[Hyperion]

I have heard of that but right now my mind is sooo cramp with what Zarvan said....

Hmmm.... I thought women could multi task!

 

[angeldust]

I like the Israeli system. Communal farms (kibbutz). Community takes care of the kids.

 

[Hyperion]

Men are also afraid of growing old alone.

No, we are most definitely not!

 

[Dubious]

You have the time to read those mammoth text walls?

I do not.

Give me a kunji version please.

I am not here to be converted. Merely to understand and debate.

If I want to be converted, I will go to a mosque or a madrasa first.

Not come to some arbit guy (or girl) spouting mullese on the net.

I have read most of it before...and some is from the quran while some is the explanation provided by some scholar..mostly the gist would be same...but depending on which scholar interpret it differs

 

[angeldust]

No, we are most definitely not!

I have heard that a man first realizes his mortality the day his father dies.

 

[Dubious]

No Sir they don't the difference are on those issues which were not clear or new matters on which Ulema made Ijtihad only fews issues from Quran and Sunnah are different and not much difference

How many times do I have to tell you I am a sister not a sir...Madam if you wish! Or by calling me that is a sin?

[Sorry people lost my cool!]

 

[Hyperion]

How many times do I have to tell you I am a sister not a sir...Madam if you wish! Or by calling me that is a sin?

[Sorry people lost my cool!]

If that's how you loose your cool, you're pretty awesome. Want to see how I loose my cool?

 

[Dubious]

No sir I did lot of research on it because form quite a while I was liberal person and hated Mullahs but after reading and doing research the problem which I have seen is Mullahs mostly tell Islam but people want to follow their nafs and want to continue all kinds of evils and don't want to leave them and want Mullahs to make those evils halal for them

Which Mullah? Those which scream kill them infidels? Seriously? Quoting the time of the war [misquoting] doesn't make them right...

 

[Hyperion]

I have heard that a man first realizes his mortality the day his father dies.

Maybe that's why I am still a jerk!

 

[Zarvan]

Which Mullah? Those which scream kill them infidels? Seriously? Quoting the time of the war [misquoting] doesn't make them right...

Sir majority of Mullahs most of them

 

[Hyperion]

Sir majority of Mullahs most of them

ma'am ma'am ma'am ma'am

 

[Dubious]

So his being an honest and well respected member of society had nothing to do with anything. Only the wars he fought?? Janay day ab .. you are like one messed up individual. God did not surprise him with prophethood, he was destined to be one. The Islam that was spread by the sword collapsed long time ago. A good example would be spain.

Islam spreading by sword was a stupid thing SOME people spread for hatred...read modern books as honest people erase that notion!

 

[Dubious]

Men are also afraid of growing old alone.

That is a big attraction of marriage.

Its the 40 odd years in between that terrify us.

There was a theory in science as to what the use of men was...Apart from produce and as a storage of the progeny they are useless because they only produce 50% of the gene and they are not involved at all in carrying the embryo and not much involved in bringing up the child! Woman does it all...and a joke was once women learn how to do artifically produce that....men are utterly not worth in the evolution cycle