Islam as a religion was never a problem with PAK. However its the way in which it has been misused to forward an agenda that is the problem. That is the key difference. This agenda has been propagated and sadly spread into millions of minds in PAK. For example, the same religious sentiment wrt to shias, sunnis and ahmedias may exist among Indian Muslims as well. However, that sentiment is largely contained as having separate mosques or not having people marry between the different sects. But on the road, in buildings, among friends, as co-workers it never comes up. Killing people because of a sect does not happen as in PAK since the Indian Muslim are very united.
Also, secularism has helped the Indian Mulsim much. In any given day they have to routinely interact, make friends, do business, study, work with people from other religions. India today is largely "a me world" meaning there is no hope if "I" don't work harder. This new feeling is rubbing off on every individual and religion has become largely a private affair with goals, money and career taking more time.
Avoid comparing Hinduism and Islam(in PAK). The better comparison is Islam in India vs Islam in PAK, regardless of the bitter sense in the topic. India has had problems but the fact that people here avoid the recent Babri Masjid ruling and the tolerance shown by every community but state the Gujrat episode over and over, which by the way is almost a decade old, only shows they are avoiding the obvious comparison of Islam in the two countries.
