What makes a good daughter-in-law

[DESERT FIGHTER]

This is a contradiction to your previous comments, only if you can work it out. But then Again when was the last time a woman successfully worked out herself or their kind. On a lighter note, they cannot even decide on what they want to eat at a time.

Thats true AF.

 

[Zibago]

It's funny to see you dishing out advices ...

Arey bhai maan baap to apni zimehdari hein is mein kiya shadi shuda hona lazmi hy bataney sey pehly

 

[abdulbarijan]

Yes but the newly Weds require a lot of space and should be left to make independent decisions instead of slamming a whole load of household duties. Husbands should help out especially if she's covering his family chores as well that is not fair. Imagine if it was the other way round? If a man had to move in with his Wife, he's just about getting used to the whole environment and his Mrs always has to check or seek permission from her family to carry out simple decisions of going out to eat, or he has to sort out his in laws laundry, make food for them, whilst his Mrs is out late.

Give us girls a break. This is why most girls prefer there own space and household

Oh please! .. don't be all "imagine it was the other way around" ... when quite literally, your every post starts with "girls are like roses, birds, squirrels, rabbits whatever ...... and should be treated as such" ... Don't bring equality in a subject, where if there was equality, you'd be the ones complaining the MOST.

After all, household chores aren't JUST cooking and cleaning. Where's the wife when the car is acting up and needs fixing, and the husband spends his few free hours home (fact: men work more working hours than women in general) getting it fixed. Wheres the wife when it's time to lift heavy things ... Where are all these women that want equality in chores but are the first ones to whine because they 'broke a nail' doing something challenging like say assembling furniture? Where is the wife when its time to take out the garbage. Where are all these equal women, when it's time to mow the lawn or give the trees a trim .... Such type of chores are overwhelmingly performed by men and are never talked about because the only time statements such as 'imagine if it was the other way around' come out of a woman's mouth ... is when, it's something that she's predominantly responsible for!

 

[Divergent]

Oh please! .. don't be all "imagine it was the other way around" ... when quite literally, your every post starts with "girls are like roses, birds, squirrels, rabbits whatever ...... and should be treated as such" ... Don't bring equality in a subject, where if there was equality, you'd be the ones complaining the MOST.

After all, household chores aren't JUST cooking and cleaning. Where's the wife when the car is acting up and needs fixing, and the husband spends his few free hours home (fact: men work more working hours than women in general) getting it fixed. Wheres the wife when it's time to lift heavy things ... Where are all these women that want equality in chores but are the first ones to whine because they 'broke a nail' doing something challenging like say assembling furniture? Where is the wife when its time to take out the garbage. Where are all these equal women, when it's time to mow the lawn or give the trees a trim .... Such type of chores are overwhelmingly performed by men and are never talked about because the only time statements such as 'imagine if it was the other way around' come out of a woman's mouth ... is when, it's something that she's predominantly responsible for!

That's nothing. Women work harder. Men just lounge around like Homer Simpson watching telly or sleeping.

But we are flowers lol

 

[abdulbarijan]

That's nothing. Women work harder. Men just lounge around like Homer Simpson watching telly or sleeping.

But we are flowers lol

Yeah 'you work harder' ... at what exactly? We're the ones lodging more hours on the work, on average bringing more money to the household while your busy spending more money on average.

In addition, we do the chores like the ones I mentioned, where the equal women are nowhere to be seen and then when we watch some telly or sleep, here comes the avalanche of "Oh you don't do anything ... your just lazy etc etc." No!! ... I look lazy to you, because like you, I don't talk like an automatic machine gun whilst working so that everybody and their extended family knows how "I'm so hardworking"

But we are flowers lol

Let's not forget that while flowers on average are beautiful, some of them flat out stink.

 

[El Sidd]

I am just going to troll here. @Zibago join in @Hell hound you too. yahan raddul fassad ki zarorat aan pari hai

@Zibago

@Verve

@abdulbarijan

@Divergent1

to each carefully selected ones. enjoy

 

[Zibago]

I am just going to troll here. @Zibago join in @Hell hound you too. yahan raddul fassad ki zarorat aan pari hai

@Zibago

@Verve

@abdulbarijan

@Divergent1

to each carefully selected ones. enjoy

Jam noshi key baad jam ko tark karna bohat mushkil hy

 

[El Sidd]

Jam noshi key baad jam ko tark karna bohat mushkil hy

na mumkin samaj lo.
meri sixth sense ne kaha ye thread ko nahi chalne dena. per us chalak aadmi ne @Divergent1 inko tag krdia. rest is history.

khair or sunao..sab set?

@Hell hound bina sehri k rozedaron...zinda hai ya nikal liye?

 

[Divergent]

@abdulbarijan we are wonderful flowers. We work harder.

I am just going to troll here. @Zibago join in @Hell hound you too. yahan raddul fassad ki zarorat aan pari hai

@Zibago

@Verve

@abdulbarijan

@Divergent1

to each carefully selected ones. enjoy

Why is mine that song?

 

[El Sidd]

@abdulbarijan we are wonderful flowers. We work harder.



Why is mine that song?

Because you are an innocent hard working flower. happy?

 

[Divergent]

Because you are an innocent hard working flower. happy?

Yes very. I am innocent

 

[El Sidd]

Yes very. I am innocent

Yes.




and my self tying shoes are choking me. the earth is flat. and the sun is just a good 3D effect created in California to fool the farmers to go work.

 

[abdulbarijan]

@abdulbarijan we are wonderful flowers. We work harder.



Why is mine that song?

Of course you are!

 

[El Sidd]

Of course you are!

Xena....So we meet again

 

[cleverrider]

I'll give you that we usually can't decide what we want to eat lol

My perspective on this, let’s start with the first point hubby and the wife’s relationship. I am going to touch on the main branch (main point) and hopefully you will understand the smaller branches to the main branch, so I don’t have to get into details. Never make husband the “wife” in the relationship, let nature take its course and let him be the man in the relationship. Nature is above all. Some “men” can adapt and will take the wife’s role in the relationship, not a great idea. Might as well marry a girl and adopt its legal now.

Second point wife’s relationship with the siblings, that you pointed out. I say treat them like potential friends, relationships run on you do little things for me and I do little things for you, favours. Example my mum is not in and I can’t make a cuppa, my bhabi makes a cuppa for me. A small favour, the next day I am buying a gift for mum, sister, and I will get something for bhabi as well. Or the next day I am about to go out with mates, and bhabi asks me to drop at her friends or at a parlour and I do it without making her ask twice and make my mates wait.

Third point and may be the most important one the mother/father in law, even though they main branch is the same meaning every family is a kinda similar( there are bad and good sides to every family) but still there are small stuff that make almost every family unique, the small branches. Different situations, different life experiences, that current period, history. Take everything into account, but above all and when things are good or bad you put (treating our elders with respect) label on the back of your perspective or how you going to react to a certain situation or do things or make opinions etc. Treat them with respect our elders deserve and how we were taught to respect our elders by our parents, society, and our culture. Then continue to take a decision, make opinions, and deal with a certain situation come what may...The first couple years are difficult if you ask any of our mums, majority will say that and then they say it made them who they are. On the flip side, Women go through so much already, 2 or 3 years of “hardships” should be a walk in the park for them. On a more serious note try their best to keep the family intact, because little things can turn into bigger problems for life, so hopefully then there are no regrets when one is older and more mature. Above all family is everything.



My two cents.