har kohee maid afford nhi kar sakhta aur phir khana banaoo ghey nhi tu khaoo ghey kidar sey aur phir jidar rehta hoo bunda saafahe to karta he hai..ghar ka kaam karne se bunda maid nhi bun jata..I understand if girls work outside but if they don't work or don't have a career then why they should ask for maids?
Well guy women do need maids for helping and sharing the work .
Do u wake up early and make nashta for your wife and her family ? And then your wife goes to work and you're busy with cooking , cleaning , cleaning shit of kidd , pressing the clothes of your wife and her family , then your wife comes from office and you've to serve her lunch then she goes to a deep calming sleep while you're still busy in housework , washing the dishes , cutting vegetables for night's dinner ?
Whole your wife only has to wake up from sleep and drink the tea you made and then go out with friends to a golf club , and then eat the dinner you made for her .
Guess what you've to do it daily , without caring that you're on mood or not tired or you're tired or you you're sick . So yes , women do need maid for support even prophet saww provided a maid to his beloved daughter for sharing the work .
Joint family system has been rapidly breaking up in Pakistan as a result of the increasing individualistic and independent attitudes of people. Boht Joint and separate family systems have their own pros and cons but Joint family system is not always evil as it provide many benefits to couple especially after having children. Feeling of togetherness, security, sharing/caring, passing ethical cultural values to children and power to think of any problem in various angles are some of the assets in joint family systems.
Such cases are rare , very rare where joint family is satisfactory .
I know many married women in my life who live with joint family system , and only one among them is living a good life others are beaten , forced , pressurised , taunt and ridiculed by the family and husband .