Nahhh I think its alright !
I have a confession to make - I'm not a Kashmiri in a linguistic & cultural sense because I neither speak my ancestral tongue (Koshur the language of the Kashmir Valley) nor do I prescribe to the culture of Kashmir; in fact culturally & linguistically I'm a Punjabi from Lahore.
The thing is that my Great-Grandpa moved with his family from Khrew (a town in Indian Occupied Kashmir) to the areas the became Pakistani Punjab in the 1800s when severe famine & drought struck Kashmir (or so I've heard). After that the next generation of his family grew up amongst Punjabis & assimilated accordingly because Punjabis by their very nature were never into 'Ethno-Linguistic Nationalism' of any kind & welcomed them & thousands like them (from Kashmir) with open arms. Thats one of the reasons why now you find hundreds of thousands of ethnic Kashmiris living in Pakistani Punjab & baring our blood or our names there really isn't anything that separates us from the average Punjabi.
My extended family (on my Father's side) came to Pakistan from Kashmir between 47-49 when the country of Pakistan was created & when the atrocities against Muslim Kashmiris began in Kashmir - Most of them were massacred along the way while the remainder made it to Pakistan & haven't looked back ever since !
So whereas my cousins in Azad Jammu & Kashmir prescribe to our ancestral culture & language - I don't....I'm a Kashmiri of Punjab !
Its a little like that pochoo thing that you called Eva Longoria !