You are wrong. 26/11 changed a lot of that.
Common Indian is, in fact, fed up with Pakistan now.
That's why 'Aman ki Asha' did not succeed.
The first and most important question that every Indian today asks is, "What do we have to gain from peace with Pakistan?". "Hamein kya faayda?"
As a growing economy and country, we are getting more and more busy with our own affairs and Pakistan is slowly fading into the area of secondary or even tertiary importance. In fact, if anything, 26/11 only fast tracked this desire of having peace with Pakistan getting more and more irrelevant in the mind of the common Indian.