The attraction is a given, no one can contest that. As far as a root cause analysis, is concerned, I was talking about why the people (youth) were opting for dating leading up to marriage / dating only culture (frowned upon in our Pakistani culture by elders/ against our established value system/ against the religious ideology of our majority population) versus the islamic version, where if you are interested in a guy or a gal, you send a message through your elders for a proposal to marry said guy or gal.
Why the shift to the former (dating etc.) and if we want a society where the moral standard is Islam (an idea supported by a huge majority of Pakistan) what can we do ... to get that ... in this facet of life ...
BTW nice seeing your posts after a long time mate...