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Urdu vs English: Are we ashamed of our language?

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Most Pakistanis have been brought up speaking our national language Urdu and English. Instead of conversing in Urdu, many of us lapse into English during everyday conversation. Even people who do not speak English very well try their best to sneak in a sentence or two, considering it pertinent for their acceptance in the ‘cooler’ crowd.

I wonder where the trend started, but unknowingly, unconsciously, somehow or the other we all get sucked into the trap. It was not until a few years ago while on a college trip to Turkey that I realized the misgivings of our innocent jabber.

A group of students of the LUMS Cultural Society trip went to Istanbul, Turkey to mark the 100th Anniversary of the famous Sufi poet Rumi. One day we were exploring the city when we stopped at a café for lunch. The waiter took our orders, and continued to hover around our table during the meal. We barely noticed him until he came with the bill, and asked us:

“Where are you from?”

“Pakistan”

The waiter looked surprised, and then asked whether we had been brought up in England. We answered in the negative, telling him how Pakistan was where we all had grown up and spent out lives. The waiter genuinely looked perplexed now. Finally he blurted out:

‘Then why don’t you speak in the Pakistani language?’

The waiter went on to explain how Turkey, particularly Istanbul was a hot tourist location, luring millions of people of different nationalities from across the globe. However, when the Dutch would come visit, they would speak Dutch. When the French would come, they would speak French. When the Chinese would come visit, they would speak Chinese. Similarly everyone in Turkey spoke Turkish. He claimed he was very proud of his language and culture and failed to understand how someone would not speak the language of their country and choose instead a foreign tongue.

There were around ten of us there, and we were all at a loss of an answer. We had never thought of it that way. It was just something that you took up because of society. Even when people speak in Urdu, they tend to include a lot of English words in their sentences. Why is that? Is it because we are not proud of our national language? I am sure all of us are aware of how beautiful Urdu is, the poetry, grace and rhythm of our language is exceptional.

One excuse that springs to mind is the concept of ‘ westernisation’ due to the increased pace of globalization in todays world. Globalization is a factor, and yet the Japanese still speak Japanese, the Thai still speak Thai, the Greeks still speak Greek. China, a powerhouse on the global economic front, despite its many factories and western products production still speaks Chinese. In fact when the Chinese Olympics were held in 2008, the Chinese government actually had to ask its Chinese public to learn a few basic English words to help welcome the world.

I respect how these countries value their sense of identity, culture and language. I was deeply ashamed of what image I was unknowingly portraying of my country. I am very proud of Pakistan and Urdu, as I am sure we all are. No matter the problems, it is still our identity. I understand the irony of this article, since it is written in English. However, it is one way to reach those people who may unconsciously be making the same mistake as I was.

When living in the UK or travelling abroad, I make sure I use Urdu to converse with fellow Pakistanis. At home, I am also trying, though it is admittedly difficult since apparently there is a weird and honestly ‘sad’ association of how ‘cool’, well brought-up and educated a person is with the amount of English he or she speaks. I write this article because it is high time we break such ignorant patterns in our society. Urdu is a beautiful and graceful language and we owe our country the respect it deserves by speaking and portraying our true roots.

Kiya khayal hai?

Urdu vs English: Are we ashamed of our language? – The Express Tribune Blog
 
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i think this is same trend in both pak & india. initially ppl disowned their mother tongue & adopted urdu/hindi & now hindi/urdu are on way to be replaced by english
 
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i think this is same trend in both pak & india. initially ppl disowned their mother tongue & adopted urdu/hindi & now hindi/urdu are on way to be replaced by english

Yup it is!

I would partly blame this trend due to British colonialism in the sub-continent and some inferiority complex that persists today because of that.
 
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You are very brave to open this thread. This is a topic most pakistanis shy away from.

In pakistan (and india) you love to speak your three wordsof english, you consider english greater than your own language, and you use any excuse to bow before it; under the excuse of progress.
It is only when you leave your country do you realise what a nation of slaves you have become.

All countries in europe speak their own language; france, less than 20 miles from england, probobaly hasn't got one 'bi-lingual' family in its population.

I can't bear to watch the pictures of cities posted on this website; almost every single building has signs in english rather than your own language.

I witnessed the most unbelievable sight on tv a while back; indian tv was showing an interview with some bollywood stars. Of course these brown english butt lickers couldn't humiliate themselves by speaking their own language, they had to speak in english, and the indian tv channel actually had hindi sub-titles.

No where else in the world!
 
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i think this is same trend in both pak & india. initially ppl disowned their mother tongue & adopted urdu/hindi & now hindi/urdu are on way to be replaced by english

Isn't it an irony that english is more important and wide spread now than when the british were here?
 
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i really love urdu to be honest, i hate that our leaders speak english in assemblies (even though they cant speak urdu properly).
 
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You are very brave to open this thread. This is a topic most pakistanis shy away from.

In pakistan (and india) you love to speak your three wordsof english, you consider english greater than your own language, and you use any excuse to bow before it; under the excuse of progress.
It is only when you leave your country do you realise what a nation of slaves you have become.

All countries in europe speak their own language; france, less than 20 miles from england, probobaly hasn't got one 'bi-lingual' family in its population.

I can't bear to watch the pictures of cities posted on this website; almost every single building has signs in english rather than your own language.

I witnessed the most unbelievable sight on tv a while back; indian tv was showing an interview with some bollywood stars. Of course these brown english butt lickers couldn't humiliate themselves by speaking their own language, they had to speak in english, and the indian tv channel actually had hindi sub-titles.

No where else in the world!

100 years of british rule has left some Pakistanis with a serious inferiority complex, the beauty of Urdu is slowly being eroded away.
 
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i really love urdu to be honest, i hate that our leaders speak english in assemblies (even though they cant speak urdu properly).

Urdu is one of the most beautiful languages in the world.

Urdu poetry is considered one of the best. Allama Iqbals Poetry can literally make you cry due to its immense beauty.

 
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You are very brave to open this thread. This is a topic most pakistanis shy away from.

In pakistan (and india) you love to speak your three wordsof english, you consider english greater than your own language, and you use any excuse to bow before it; under the excuse of progress.
It is only when you leave your country do you realise what a nation of slaves you have become.

All countries in europe speak their own language; france, less than 20 miles from england, probobaly hasn't got one 'bi-lingual' family in its population.

I can't bear to watch the pictures of cities posted on this website; almost every single building has signs in english rather than your own language.

I witnessed the most unbelievable sight on tv a while back; indian tv was showing an interview with some bollywood stars. Of course these brown english butt lickers couldn't humiliate themselves by speaking their own language, they had to speak in english, and the indian tv channel actually had hindi sub-titles.

No where else in the world!

Well like I said above: I would partly blame this trend due to British colonialism in the sub-continent and some inferiority complex that persists today because of that.

Its so disgusting to see that there are people in Pakistan who look down on you if you cannot speak English! As if speaking English makes you a more classier, educated, tolerant person compared to someone who cannot :disagree:

Another problem we have is that regional languages are in danger of being extinct. Nothing wrong with learning English, but don't look down or forget your culture either!
 
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Its a great shame but its true. Unfortunately there is this mindset that your opinion will have greater weight if stated in English. English = Well Educated for us. As said shame as we have perhaps some of the most beautiful languages and yet we shy away from them. A nation only becomes successful once they start respecting themselves. Adopting English as out first language in the name of Modernization is wrong.
 
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there is no harm in speaking English,you know language is associated with its speaker like urdu with Pakistanis.Our in the world is not good so people do not want to expose their nationality most of the time.If Pakistanis do well in the world our lanhuage will automatically carry a worth.
 
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This is simply a result of colonialism. The elitist Indians left incharge of running the day to day business of the country were obviously taught in Britain or by the British, all social institutions were set up by the British and those incharge of these institutions were approved by the British. Naturally then the over time, those pioneers of modern institutions in our country, with their British background implemented a British system. Now a crucial part of that was their language of English.
 
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I might add that this phenomenon is not limited to South Asians only. North African Arabs have a big influence of French on their language.Speaking French is preferred amongst them. Similar effects can be seen on Lebanese people along with West African countries.
 
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