I am extremely sorry to hear about your naani, and make no mistake, I have no special love for these Islamic radicals, neither I am in favour of any kind of minority appeasement for the sake of vote bank politics by political parties, and barely any party in India would qualify as truly secular. My opposition of radical Hindutva does not mean that I have a soft stand against Islamic radicalism or those growing deobandi schools in India. Probably you have already seen that from my posts on many threads.
I can understand that you and your family have suffered a lot, and it is normal for you to be a hardliner against them, and I am all in favour of any political party that has a spine to show these radical mullahs their right place, but constitutionally, I am not in favour of becoming equally intolerant bigots like these mullahs are just to counter them, that will be a real defeat for us, for our country, and for Hinduism. We really don't need become evil to counter evil. We should make our laws stronger, our policies more robust, and our security forces more lethal. This is our country, she has a reputation in the world and we are proud of it, why should we lose it all and become like some of our neighbours with questionable reputation?
My loss in the hands of these scums are probably not any less than yours, if not more, I will share the history some other time, but I refuse to mimic those Jamatis & mullahs to avenge that, there are better ways.