Story of your life so far

[Well.wisher]

Don't be thankless to the Creator.

Life is beautiful if you make it beautiful and it is miserable if you make it miserable. It is a short test anyways, enjoy it instead of being disgruntled. Just remember, it is only shaitan that'll make you think it is miserable and subsequently lead to disbelief in the afterlife.

Choice is with us to make. Guidance is there for all, whomever chooses to follow will make his/her life beautiful.

Hang on to faith, patience, truth, and do good deeds irrespective of hard times. Reward far outweighs the hardship.

I'm not being thankless just expressing my choice .
And anyway God has millions and trillions of other lives in the earth , he has to manage everyone so obviously I remained ignored and unimportant so that is why God doesn't bother to solve mine .
He has millions of pious grateful people and the rest remain ignored .

 

[Verve]

I'm not being thankless just expressing my choice .
And anyway God has millions and trillions of other lives in the earth , he has to manage everyone so obviously I remained ignored and unimportant so that is why God doesn't bother to solve mine .
He has millions of pious grateful people and the rest remain ignored .

Blood is flowing through your body, so please do not say that you are being ignored.

You are able to express yourself, you have emotions, you are healthy (& even if you have a disability), you are definitely not being ignored.

Your heart beats because of Allah. He's taking care of you even when you think He's not.

 

[Well.wisher]

Blood is flowing through your body, so please do not say that you are being ignored.

You are able to express yourself, you have emotions, you are healthy (& even if you have a disability), you are definitely not being ignored.

Your heart beats because of Allah. He's taking care of you even when you think He's not.

Then why is he not getting me rid of all these unseen diseases that Im fighting against since years .
I burned my blood to get shifa , but am still stuck . I was close to God but then I lost it .

 

[Ocean]

Easier said than done .

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Yey tau hai, easier said than done, one who is facing knows the pain better, but has not Allah said, he never tests beyond ones willpower. I prayed for you and will pray more insha Allah.
Itnee na shukri mat karna dear kay baad may kabhi regret ho kay kash thora sabar kar liya hota. Na shukri causes naimatain to be lost.

But Allah is kind i am sure he will help you out.

Then why is he not getting me rid of all these unseen diseases that Im fighting against since years .
I burned my blood to get shifa , but am still stuck . I was close to God but then I lost it .

Hazrat ayub also saw terrible illnesses , i dont know what is the issue on your side, keep getting treatment from doctors, also recite all duas from quran and hadees that are meant for shifa. I have a habit of reciting all duas from quran and hadees just like that, if you need them i can share.

Kuch arsa pehlay i came accross an audio share by a girl on an islamic lectures site, the site admin had shared it as they knew that girl personally.. Us larki ki choti behan thee who was 21 yr old married for a year or two and had a small baby. Uski behan ko cancer ho gaya and sadly she died from it, so she shared how much pain she went through, so she said jab woh bohat bemar thee tau she could not even turn her side on bed she had to call her mom for help, then she said kay woh paani bhi nahi pi sakti thee, agar woh pani peeti tau usko andar bohat takleef hoti something like that. Then she herself said kay dekho paani pee sakna kitni baree naimat hai jiski kabhi hum insan value hee nahi kartay , kabhi sochtay bhi nahi, hum pani ka glass uthatay hain pee letay hain. Magar usko paani peenay say bhi body may kuch pain hota tha. Those lines touched me so badly kabhi uski baat bhooli nahi.

 

[Verve]

Then why is he not getting me rid of all these unseen diseases that Im fighting against since years .
I burned my blood to get shifa , but am still stuck . I was close to God but then I lost it .

May Allah make it easier for you.

Please focus on the positives and good things instead.

 

[Jugger]

I learnt that keeping expectations is futile.
Expect nothing from others only then you will be grateful for everything you receive.
Another thing I learnt was to wish well for everyone even your enemies, slowly your enemies will also be your friend.

 

[Well.wisher]

Yey tau hai, easier said than done, one who is facing knows the pain better, but has not Allah said, he never tests beyond ones willpower. I prayed for you and will pray more insha Allah.
Itnee na shukri mat karna dear kay baad may kabhi regret ho kay kash thora sabar kar liya hota. Na shukri causes naimatain to be lost.

But Allah is kind i am sure he will help you out.


Hazrat ayub also saw terrible illnesses , i dont know what is the issue on your side, keep getting treatment from doctors, also recite all duas from quran and hadees that are meant for shifa. I have a habit of reciting all duas from quran and hadees just like that, if you need them i can share.

Kuch arsa pehlay i came accross an audio share by a girl on an islamic lectures site, the site admin had shared it as they knew that girl personally.. Us larki ki choti behan thee who was 21 yr old married for a year or two and had a small baby. Uski behan ko cancer ho gaya and sadly she died from it, so she shared how much pain she went through, so she said jab woh bohat bemar thee tau she could not even turn her side on bed she had to call her mom for help, then she said kay woh paani bhi nahi pi sakti thee, agar woh pani peeti tau usko andar bohat takleef hoti something like that. Then she herself said kay dekho paani pee sakna kitni baree naimat hai jiski kabhi hum insan value hee nahi kartay , kabhi sochtay bhi nahi, hum pani ka glass uthatay hain pee letay hain. Magar usko paani peenay say bhi body may kuch pain hota tha. Those lines touched me so badly kabhi uski baat bhooli nahi.

Yes dear .
God is merciful , I believe in his qudrat and mercy .

 

[Well.wisher]

May Allah make it easier for you.

Please focus on the positives and good things instead.

In sha Allah . Ameen : )

 

[gslv]

I will beg to differ with Dr.Maraboli. Ambition in life is necessary, but not to the fanatical extent he is intending it to be, if I am reading him correctly. If I love apple pie, after eating one, I will feel good. After eating another I might feel better. After third, I will start feeling full, and after fourth I will feel terrible. The body and mind will just throw it out. This is just an example which proves, that happiness from outside has certain limitations. It can't keep us eternally happy. Rather inner humane qualities like honesty, humility, truthfulness etc are the simple secrets of real happiness in life, which in fact makes us understand ourselves, this world in a much better and clearer way.

That's true.
Before becoming doctor, I thought curing patients will give me happiness. But the mentality and iq of the society as a whole is less than a donkey. And also few of my senior doctors who have passed mbbs more years before than the my age are idiots of highest order.
Now for last few months I have decided, let the world go to hell. I will only care for myself and friends and family. Because of idiot doctors and patients my health deteriorated sometimes ago. Now its regaining. Thanks to yoga and pranayam and go to hell attitude.

 

[Ocean]

That's true.
Before becoming doctor, I thought curing patients will give me happiness. But the mentality and iq of the society as a whole is less than a donkey. And also few of my senior doctors who have passed mbbs more years before than the my age are idiots of highest order.
Now for last few months I have decided, let the world go to hell. I will only care for myself and friends and family. Because of idiot doctors and patients my health deteriorated sometimes ago. Now its regaining. Thanks to yoga and pranayam and go to hell attitude.

True with doctors it gets too strenous. A friends elder sister was studying for specialization course at one of the most reputed speciality course training colleges in pakistan. It was a 4-5 years duration course and was in two parts, part 1 was first year and part 2 started from seond year till last year. So my frnd was like her sister is now in part 2 and when you are doing speciality courses you work at gov hospitals with senior doctors, she was sharing senior most doctors had such a terrible terrible attitude with juniors and that perhaps goes at all other places too, so she said her sister and her classmates had given titles of chotay puppy to part 1 students and baray puppies to part 2 students. So when her sister and friends had to talk to part 1 juniors they would say tum log chotay puppy ho aur hum baray puppy hain.
All that cause of harsh treatment from senior doctors and with 36 hours duties it could not get much harder.
I think when we are humiliated we all get angry and want to react but when we think from a calmer mind we would feel that maybe 80-90 pc times when we felt the need to react or we actually reacted, we could have easily let go of it , cause as the time passes we realize how mundane it was.
I think something that keeps me calm and cool are prayers. For some yoga works , so at the end one needs something to build up their stamina and help them maintain a cool state of mind. Else if we start bothering about everyone n everything and locking horns over every annoying stuff , then life would be to impossible to live.

 

[wiseone2]

I will beg to differ with Dr.Maraboli. Ambition in life is necessary, but not to the fanatical extent he is intending it to be, if I am reading him correctly. If I love apple pie, after eating one, I will feel good. After eating another I might feel better. After third, I will start feeling full, and after fourth I will feel terrible. The body and mind will just throw it out. This is just an example which proves, that happiness from outside has certain limitations. It can't keep us eternally happy. Rather inner humane qualities like honesty, humility, truthfulness etc are the simple secrets of real happiness in life, which in fact makes us understand ourselves, this world in a much better and clearer way.

I like to use the words: purpose & direction

 

[Verve]

Thanks to yoga and pranayam and go to hell attitude.

Interesting that Yoga helps strengthen Go To Hell attitude.

Yoga maybe helping somewhat to calm you down but your heart is hardening and that will make you very bitter, cynical and selfish the older you get ...

 

[wxyz]

My life in a sentence: An aberrant Greek tragedy in an otherwise prosaic world, fortunately not too devoid of beauty.

so poetic, my friend.