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Sharing husband could boost family health and wealth!

Is this necessary that I am talking about equality of rights b/c it has to do something with religion.

Sir, your claims of equal rights cannot be taken seriously without reconciling them with the beliefs and practices of the society within which you want to grant such rights to women.

As you want, I will not participate in this thread any more.
 
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Sir, your claims of equal rights cannot be taken seriously without reconciling them with the beliefs and practices of the society within which you want to grant such rights to women.

As you want, I will not participate in this thread any more.
Sorry to say but I live in Pakistani society,and in metro city like Karachi and the environment to which I belong,men can only have one wife and in case of cheating,their wedding ends into divorce.Your argument would be valid,if I would be arab,lol

end of discussion.

regards
 
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Sorry to say but I live in Pakistani society,and in metro city like Karachi and the environment to which I belong,men can only have one and in case of cheating,their wedding ends as separation.Your argument would be valid,if I would be arab,lol

end of discussion.

regards

By Pakistani law and religion, your claim of "men can have only one" is not true, and there can be many examples given, but since you are keen to end this discussion, I must bow out. :D
 
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By Pakistani law and religion, your claim of "men can have only one" is not true, and there can be many examples given, but since you are keen to end this discussion, I must bow out. :D
See,again religion!:woot:
what?man can have only one?
Oh,aray,sir,uncle,Men can have other than one as well as,but they must give them same status as well or else they should stick to one,this is what I was talking and in general,but then you jumped up and that poster went away and you jumped up with religion,society,men want more etc:woot:
regards
 
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Indian wife golden rule #1 (especially the working ones, with regard to money) :

What's mine is mine

What's yours is also mine

Look at things this way: You better find a way to be happy with your wife, otherwise you will learn to be happy with half your stuff! :D

(See, no religion here! :D )
 
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Look at things this way: You better find a way to be happy with your wife, otherwise you will learn to be happy with half your stuff! :D

(See, no religion here! :D )

That's an American speaking.

In India what keeps husbands in finished marriages are the kids. Because very very rarely (if ever) does the guy get his kids.

Regardless of what a useless tart the woman is, her position as primary care giver is almost assured.
 
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That's an American speaking.

In India what keeps husbands in finished marriages are the kids. Because very very rarely (if ever) does the guy get his kids.

Regardless of what a useless tart the woman is, her position as primary care giver is almost assured.

Sir, I am prevented from talking about the situation in Pakistan, so I talked about USA instead. :D
 
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Let's just agree to disagree, shall we?

Ya, np.

No I haven't met any 'trashy' women yet, just highly educated and independent ones.

"Trashy" isn't meant as a skank dancing on a pole for a living. But superficial relations (**** buddies) which last just as long as the physical attraction is there or for some material benefit-doesn't need to be money, can be anything, most commonly promotions.

As trash parlors, it's not meant to mean strip club. It means mid-upscale bar/clubbing scene where superficial, addicted to more than one thing "successful" CEO's, lawyers and other assorted crap congregate.
 
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Ya, np.



"Trashy" isn't meant as a skank dancing on a pole for a living. But superficial relations (**** buddies) which last just as long as the physical attraction is there or for some material benefit-doesn't need to be money, can be anything, most commonly promotions.

As trash parlors, it's not meant to mean strip club. It means mid-upscale bar/clubbing scene where superficial, addicted to more than one thing "successful" CEO's, lawyers and other assorted crap congregate.

You live in interesting climes.
 
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Two wives? i need to get a wife first. :ashamed:
Awwww :oops: Girlfriend ? Fiancé?

I live in the West Coast of the United States where Desis typically follow California culture and values in their daily lives. Most of us are upper middle class with both partners often highly educated and living together, while marriage is optional. Marriage is performed often for tax purposes only. Children can be born out-of-wedlock and no one bats an eyelash. Its your commitment to children that matters, not your marital status. A piece of paper for a contract is neither a covenant nor the indicator of love between two people. This is what the future is...



This is convenient for your wife but is it for you? Why will you limit yourself? I'm sure she is looking at boys' pectoral muscles too which is (snicker) cute. What is the problem if you observed someone's 'well rounded back'? As long as you're not cheating or straying - why the guilty feeling?



The gals will have 'none of it' because a wife,

a) Probably earns less than you and is insecure about losing you as a bread-winner.
b) Jealous because she 'thinks' she doesn't look as good as the 'hot number' she saw you looking at.

These reasons above are because of laziness on the part of the woman (not trying to educate herself or not going to the gym, as it maybe). Both cases are irrelevant if women have parity in earnings with men and 'maintain' their figure and attractiveness into their 40's and 50's.

It is a given that men will stray (or at least will try). They are designed by the almighty to 'propagate the species'. It's biology plain and simple.

What keeps men from cheating is pure love, adoration and consideration for one woman, which is what it should be, not considerations about children or feelings of guilt. Kids are now happy in non-traditional split families as well, as is the norm all around me nowadays.



Mistresses - as I mentioned, are the norm for the Uber-wealthy all across Asia. It is reality. What you describe with a happy loving home is a norm mostly in middle class homes.



If you call attractive women with PhD's at Director slots in major firms, dingbat gold-diggers than I have nothing to say. Your concept of family died in the US in the late 80's....

Ultimately - marital piety benefits the women only (often lazy, non-competitive ones) and there is something seriously wrong with that one-sided equation. Women in the new age have become independent and have gotten far beyond that.
It seems to me that you turned up in California from a conservative society and to your amazement found women who would go out and even sleep with you-no strings attached and now you think that is all there is in life. Bhai jaan please remember California is also where they use the most anti-depressants, pain killers, stimulants and relaxants. You say beautiful educated women don't mind while you ogle women around you because they are secure in themselves? Hahaha - let be disabuse you of that little fantasy - they don't mind because they have not invested anything in the relationship, you leave or stay they DON'T CARE. Give it ten years and you will be ready for something more meaningful unless you are an out and out narcissist, in which case you will remain Peter Pan.

Real life is not only about money and trim bodies, there are many many other things. As we go through life we look for real connections, you won't find that until you are ready to value another person and you don't value women.
 
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Sharing husband could boost family health and wealth!
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Published: October 29, 2015
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Most countries around the globe ban or restrict marriages to more than one spouse at a time. PHOTO: DESIFREETV

NEW YORK: Polygyny – where one husband has more wives than one – may not be as bad as it is often made out to be. New research has found that the practice of sharing a husband may, in some circumstances, lead to greater health and wealth for women and their children.

Most countries around the globe ban or restrict marriages to more than one spouse at a time. And polygyny is decried by the United Nations Human Rights Commission and women’s rights organisations as discriminatory to women.

For the study, the researchers compared polygynous and monogamous households in 56 villages in northern Tanzania, where polygyny is widespread among certain ethnic groups, including the Maasai.

Emotional attachment to work good for your health

When comparing households within individual villages, polygynous households often had better access to food and healthier children. Polygynous households also owned more cattle and farmed more land than monogamous households.

These findings support evolutionary anthropological accounts of marriage indicating that polygyny can be in a woman’s strategic interest when women depend on men for resources.

“If you have a choice of a guy who has 180 cows, lots of land and other wives, it might be better for you to marry him rather than a guy who has no wives, three cows and one acre,” said one of the researchers Monique Borgerhoff Mulder from University of California, Davis in the US.

The research highlight the importance of local context in studying the health implications of cultural practices, and suggest that in some settings, prohibiting polygyny could be disadvantageous to women by restricting their marriage options.

Angry women lose influence

“The issue is not the number of partners,” Borgerhoff Mulder said. ”Women should be assured the autonomy to make the decisions they want,” she pointed out.

Tanzania faces a high burden of food insecurity and malnutrition. Previous research showed that nearly 60 percent of Tanzanian Maasai children experience stunting.

“Our study suggests that highly polygynous, predominantly Maasai, villages do poorly not because of polygyny, but because of vulnerability to drought, low service provision and broader socio-political disadvantages,” lead author of the study David Lawson from London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine explained.

The study was published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.


Sharing husband could boost family health and wealth! - The Express Tribune


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It really a hot topic...But my funda is simple..If you are not satisfied with one...Then get separated and stay single...Hire an escot agency and entertain yourself..But marrying multiple women or sharing husand is one of the BS idea that gets propagated by these people.
 
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