serious issue in our society

[Raja.Pakistani]

badi na-insaafi hai............

Iss se bari na-insafi happen to those average looking non professional girls who go through this typical rishta process as most of these aunties visit their places, drink tea, eat cakes/biscuits, judge and evaluate the girls from head to toe and then reject them without understanding the affect of this rejection on their personality and confidence. Rejection after rejection hurts the feelings and its true for guys as well but they don't have to present themselves like show piece and don't have to do cat walks unlike girls

 

[VCheng]

Iss se bari na-insafi happen to those average looking non professional girls who go through this typical rishta process as most of these aunties visit their places, drink tea, eat cakes/biscuits, judge and evaluate the girls from head to toe and then reject them without understanding the affect of this rejection on their personality and confidence. Rejection after rejection hurts the feelings and its true for guys as well but they don't have to present themselves like show piece and don't have to do cat walks unlike girls

Yes, guys just have to meet the very strict "larka karta kia hey" test.

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

This is not happening in Pakistan but India as well. The current socio-economic change has changed a lot of things in the society. Girls have always liberty to study more as they dont have to go on a mode like of a guy "To earn, settle then marry". Hence boys/men start very early first to earn some money and then proceed study of they want to.

Most of my engineering college struggled for almost an year and then started getting job while girls went for M.Tech and MBA as they want to continue the flow until they get marry. Now most of the girls are post graduate while we are just B Tech. So think about the equation.

Apart from these situation the most dangerous situation in society is coming up where people are working and getting married at later stage at the age of 28-32. As they have taken heavy loans to repay for their dream home, They are not going ahead of the babies. This creates problem for them as medically 35 it is hard to conceive. I personally know 4-5 families who are stuck up in this equation.

This socio-economic change is creating many problems which we are not focusing right now.

You are right. I was always surprised to see that why most of the time girls are the top position holders in board exams

Education is good. If you are highly educated and professional women then that's great achievement for her as well as for her parent but then worries for parent is to find the like minded partner for such girls who are bit different than those traditional girls who can adjust in all situation.

Age is also important for many guys when they go for bride haunting even older guys go for much younger girls so its loss of girls if they invest their precious years in study and work and later struggle to find a suitable partner who can understand them and is mentally compatible. Intelligent girls with dumb guys don't seem good combination while intelligent guy with dumb girls can work. I have seen that educated girls are out spoken, confident which is not considered good quality by some dumb guys out there

 

[Raja.Pakistani]

Yes, guys just have to meet the very strict "larka karta kia hey" test.

haha yea they ask this question to guess his earnings/financial condition

Yes, guys just have to meet the very strict "larka karta kia hey" test.

haha yea they ask this question to guess his earnings/financial condition

 

[DarkPrince]

You are right. I was always surprised to see that why most of the time girls are the top position holders in board exams

Education is good. If you are highly educated and professional women then that's great achievement for her as well as for her parent but then worries for parent is to find the like minded partner for such girls who are bit different than those traditional girls who can adjust in all situation.

Age is also important for many guys when they go for groom haunting even older guys go for much younger girls so its loss of girls if they invest their precious years in study and work and later struggle to find a suitable partner who can understand them and is mentally compatible. Intelligent girls with dumb guys don't seem good combination while intelligent guy with dumb girls can work. I have seen that educated girls are out spoken, confident which is not considered good quality by some dumb guys out there

nah u can find many dumb guys with intelligent gals