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[PART 1]

This is one subject I am very passionate about so I would like to add my two cents if I may! Personal safety and security is down to common sense. It's all down to situational awareness, to begin with, followed by impact factors and your capacity and ability to respond to the threat.

Unfortunately, there are not a lot of areas left in our world where you are immune to threats to your personal safety. With increases in crime such as theft, rape, terrorism and assault, it is in our best interest to pay attention.

This post is not covering the entire subject of self-defence, it may give you some food for thought.

It is also important to mention that whilst however no one is totally immune from possibly becoming a victim of a crime, learning how to be more alert and aware of your surroundings and keeping an eye out for signs of trouble is a good start.

As any good self-defence trainer will tell you, the best self-defence is to avoid the situation entirely. So let's get started, first, we are going to look at how the mind of criminal works and then compare this to the thought process of the victim:

The mental process of a criminal are broken into three simple steps:
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1. First, a target is selected
2. A plan is made
3. The crime is committed

A victim is at a disadvantage because they have to go through a four step process:

1. They have to be aware of their surroundings
2. They have to evaluate the situation
3. They have to think of a counter plan
4. Finally, take action on the plan.

As a potential victim goes through these four steps, they are running through the phases of the “personal safety spectrum”.

This system is a simplified version of the “Cooper Colour Code” which is named after the person who developed it, Colonel Jeff Cooper of the United States Marine Corps, the colour code was designed to teach US Marines about maintaining mental readiness and how to respond to threats based on severity and exposure.

The personal safety spectrum, which is what I am going to be talking about is a more simplified version designed for personal safety awareness:

Here is the list of the conditions “phases” of the personal safety spectrum:

1. Condition Grey: In a safe place such as your home, and are not concerned with your surroundings.

2. Condition Yellow: When you are outside driving or walking down the street, you should be in Yellow condition. You should be taking in information, assessing risks. The reason you upgrade from condition grey to yellow is because you have left the comfort of a controlled environment, such as your “home” and as such have a greater need to pay attention to the environment around you.

For example:
You are proceeding down a sidewalk, a person approaches and asks “what time is it”? At this point, most people will look at their watch, this is actually a common distraction technique used to cause inattention to your surroundings.

3. Condition Red: In this condition you should be ALERT, look at the person/threat and decide what you will do and your decision, the act upon that decision. Once you are ready to act, you upgrade to Condition Green.

4. Condition Green: When you see an individual approaching you and decide you don’t wish contact, change your direction by moving away from the individual.

5. Condition White: This is a state of panic and you don’t know what to do.

So you can see, that it pays to be alert and aware of your surroundings as you may never know what may be around the corner. For example, if somebody approaches you, there are four things you need to be thinking about:

1. Hands: Where are their hands and what are they doing with their hands. 55% of our communication is through body language, for example: if someone makes a fist, chances are they are going to hit someone with it. But if they don’t have anything in their hands, then you should start looking for the second thing which is weapons.

2. Weapons: Guns, Knives or anything within that person's reach that can be used against you. Also known as a weapon of opportunity.

3. Friends and Associates: Is the person alone or is he in a group? Remember that many crimes are committed in pairs.

4. Escape: Finally consider your options to escape, where are you going to run to, are you boxed in, are you blocking the exit of the suspect? Remember that cornered criminals are more likely to use violence, so keep this in mind when considering an escape route.

This video shows some examples of pre-contact queues:

Here is a fine example of what happens when you fail to pick up on pre-contact queues telling you to "fight or flight":

Guard your personal space, When approached by someone whom you do not trust always try to keep him/her outside of what is referred to as your “Intimate space”, simply put, keep strangers who approach you and you don’t trust at an arms length. There are three kinds of Spaces you need to be concerned with when it comes to personal safety:

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1. Intimate space: 0-1.5 Feet (The only people you should allow into your intimate space are people you trust such as your friends and family).

2. Personal space: 1.5 Feet – 4 Feet (This is the ideal range to deal with strangers, it makes it difficult for someone to try and grab your clothing, or throw a punch. You should always try to maintain a distance out of “arms reach” when dealing with strangers you may feel are a threat. This space should allow you enough of a gap to quickly run through the four steps to be able to protect yourself.

3. Social space and public space: 4 Feet – 12 Feet ( This is the distance you should aim to keep from people in public, remember that even at 4 Feet, you are still maintaining the “Arms length” distance from a potential threat.

Observation:

This is a very important skill to learn and develop, not only will help keep you safe, it can also help when completing a FIR and if you notice anything out of the ordinary during your day to day activities such as a suspicious car or package, or even an unusual smell coming from something unexpected you can report it to the authorities.

https://www.samaa.tv/video/2017/02/cctv-footage-of-gun-attack-on-police-van/


Remember if it doesn't look right or if it doesn't sound or smell right, report it! When observing your surroundings, use the look, scent, listen method. Start from head and go to toes, clothing information such as shirts, pants, shoes, accessories, and then consider the physical characteristics of the individual such as:

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1. Body shape
2. Skin colour/ Eye Colour
3. Hair [colour and length]
4. Height
5. Gender
6. Age
7. Distinguishing features including what weapon was used?,voice, accent, strange smells such as “Charred hands, or smelling like chemicals etc.”

8. Finally record the direction of travel: Which way were they going.
 
[Part 2]

When you are out and about you need to remember three simple rules:
  1. Stay Alert: Referred to as Situational Awareness
  2. Avoid Risky Situations: No need to be a Hero
  3. Trust Your Instincts: If it does not feel right…avoid it
Safety at work:
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  • Keep your work area organised and secure
  • Lock pocketbooks in desk drawer or locker
  • When entering or exiting the building look for suspicious activity
  • Always travel in groups
  • Report all suspicious vehicles and people
  • Know the location of the nearest exit
DON'T BE LIKE LARRY:

Safety in public places:
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  • Go in groups
  • Walk in well-lighted areas
  • Be alert to suspicious activity
  • Never carry more items than necessary
  • Provide route to friend or family member
  • Carry pocketbooks and briefcases securely
  • Always carry identification
  • Never carry more money than you are willing to lose
  • Carry money, credit cards, and ID in trouser pocket…separate from pocketbook
  • Stay alert at ATM machines
  • Carry a fully-charged cell phone
  • Avoid uncomfortable situations (remember the three rules)
Scenario:
You are in a busy marketplace, there have been a number of operations against militant groups in Pakistan recently and the militants have vowed retribution, you notice something suspicious near a market.

Do you:
A) inspect it?
B) call for help?
If you chose option B, well DONE!


Remember that unlike the movies it takes lengthy training and use of correct PPE and tools such as x-ray, hook, and line etc to safely dispose of an IED. If you cannot identify something, you CANNOT handle it! Simple as that.
  • Vacate the area and inform security/police
  • Do Not use cell phones or CB radios in close proximity to the device
  • Evacuate the area minimum 200 meters, try to get behind a solid building away from any glass or falling hazards and do not return until the police have made the area safe. Terrorists are known to use primary explosions to stage an assault or gather a crowd before detonating a secondary IED.

Safety in your vehicle:
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  • Keep doors locked at all times
  • Park in well-lighted area or potential for light
  • Do not park between two full-size vehicles
  • Scan the area before exiting the vehicle
  • Remember where you parked
  • Place valuables in trunk or take with you
  • Park near the front of the business
  • Scan parking lot before returning to vehicle
  • Walk with others
  • Have your keys out as you approach
  • Look for signs of forced entry
  • Scan interior of vehicle before you enter
  • Quickly enter your vehicle and lock the doors
  • Do not exit your vehicle for strangers
If you THINK you are being followed:
  • Have your cell phone ready for use
  • Look to see that you are not being followed, check your mirrors. To test if you have a tail, make a note of the vehicle and if you are on a highway reduce your speed gradually, as you do this other car will overtake you, the tail will try to match your speed. If you are off the highway in a commercial or residential area you can go around a few familiar busy streets a couple of times, if the same car is behind you, then you have a tail
  • My favourite method is to use roundabouts if you are lucky enough to be near a roundabout, don't take the exit, go round the roundabout two or even three times, if, by the third time the car is still behind you, you have a tail on your backside.
This video from 1978 presents the basic tactics used in vehicle surveillance used even today:

If you are being followed:
There are many methods to losing a tail, but that is too complex for this post just use common sense.
  • Keep moving in a busy area, stay on main roads.
  • Change direction and return to the business
  • Drive to a busy convenience store
  • Call 15 or your local police helpline number from you cell phone - Apps are available which will send an alert SMS with your map location to your contacts at the push of the home button three times.
  • Avoid driving to the police department after business hours, most stations close to the public in Pakistan after 23:00 HRS.
  • DO NOT GO HOME
When approaching a check post, signal clearly that you have no harmful intentions:
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  • Slow down
  • Avoid any brusque movements in the car, and keep your hands clearly up and visible.
  • Stop the car a few yards from a barrier, but always keep the engine running unless ordered otherwise.
  • If there is more than one vehicle, the next one keeps a certain distance
  • Take off sunglasses so that people can see your face and eyes
  • Put the window down; just about 2/3” enough for you to pass your id badge if needed.
  • After dark, avoid using High-Beam headlights when approaching check posts
  • After dark turn on the light inside the car cabin so that all passengers are clearly visible
  • Be polite and comply with the officer's questions. No need to get offended and be rude.
If you get hit from behind whilst driving:
  • Try to avoid becoming boxed-in, always try to keep 1 chevron/car length between you and the car ahead. ( Impossible in Lahore and Karachi, I have tested. Damn bikers and Rickshaw wala's). :P
  • Avoid isolated areas, this is very IMPORTANT!
  • If bumped from behind…remain in your vehicle
  • Open car window on 1-2 inches
  • Dial 15 to report the accident
  • Do not exit your vehicle - some gangs will do a bumper hug as a tactic for you to get out so they can a)mug you or b) rob your car!
  • Get the License Plate number of the other vehicle, if it leaves the scene
  • Get a description of the driver, if possible
  • Remain where you are until police arrive
  • Do not resist an armed car-jacking. Remember that an average acceleration of a .32 is 335m/s, that's faster than your hands can react! The moment the enemy has a weapon against you and you are unarmed, you have lost the tactical advantage!

[Part 3]
Safety at Home:
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  • Keep bushes and shrubbery trimmed to no more than 3 feet high
  • Keep the lowest limb on trees to no lower than 6 ft from the ground
  • Keep window and doors locked at all times
  • If you have a dog, good they are the best friends you will have. If you don't like dogs too bad.
  • Install auxiliary locks on your windows if the current locks are not sufficient
  • Use solid core exterior doors [ Sold wood doors instead of hollow core doors]
  • Use motion sensor lights on the exterior of your home or CCTV cameras, which can be purchased for as little as Rs. 4000
  • If you are going away out of town for a vacation or the house will be unoccupied for a long period of time, either cancel or have neighbours or family/friends collect mail or newspapers when you are away.
  • When leaving the house alone, keep some lights on and leave a radio or television on to give the appearance of an occupied home.
  • Set up a neighbourhood watch scheme in your area this is very active in Karachi.
  • Keep Jewellery/money/valuables in no conspicuous location…in other words…not in the master bedroom
  • Do not provide personal information over the phone unless you initiated the conversation
  • If you list our phone number…use only your initials, not your full name
  • Remove the nameplate from the front of your house! especially if yours says Brig (R), Gen(R), Adv IHC, CEO Blah, Blah, you get the picture!
  • If you have staff in the house such as drivers, cooks, cleaners, drivers, chowkidars etc make sure you keep a copy of their CNIC, get it verified by SMS. Get the CNIC of the person and send the CNIC number (with or without dashes) to 8008. If the number is Genuine you should get a text back with all his family as well along with their CNIC numbers.
  • Make sure you only hire staff that you can get references for, or they are happy to provide an up to date police character certificate and new biometric CNIC which you can verify! Never trust your children with the staff!
  • Use Caller-ID to screen your calls
  • Report Harassing Phone calls to PTCL or the correct telco
  • Report threatening phone calls to the police and FIA
  • Report threatening or Harassing social media posts to the FIA
  • Avoid storing your home location in your phone navigation
  • Avoid enabling geolocation for your camera on your smartphone
Home Security System:
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Okay so if you have the money to splash out, there are many options. You can pay a company like Wackenhut Pakistan and they will install and monitor the alarm for you, sending out an armed QRF if the alarm or Panic button is pressed, but of course this costs LOTS of money.

The cheaper alternative is, again if you have the cash to buy a CCTV system with DVR this should set you back about 20,000 PKR. Installation can be done yourself if you are reasonably technical. If not, the vendor will do the installation on average for an extra 5,000 plus 150 rupees for every meter of wiring used. When buying camera always opt for wide angle, Zero Lux cameras.

Home alarm systems that trigger an audio alarm if the window is broken or door is opened cost about 10,000 PKR on OLX.com and I have tested one, they work really well! Most alarms now have the ability to send an SMS or a call to up to three pre-stored numbers using an auto dialer and a pre-paid GSM sim. They even have a backup battery so should the UPS fail during a day of load shedding the alarm will run on backup battery for 24 hours.

Example:
https://www.olx.com.pk/item/gsm-bas...plete-security-system-IDTMSVH.html#17212e15a1

Hired Guns:
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Okay, so you have cash to spend and want to hire a security guard. Things to look out for when hiring a security guard.

1. ONLY hire from companies who are members of APSAA ( All Pakistan Security Agencies Association). www.apsaa.com.pk

2. Ask people in your office, workplace or neighbourhood if they recommend a company.

3. Check the company website, and visit their office. Any decent company should have a file on each guard which should include the following:

A. CNIC
B. Character Certificate from Police and Special Branch
C. Copy of service book if ex-military
D. Training log: Most good companies keep one, in Islamabad and Punjab this training in mandatory.
E. License both for the company and the guard, company license is from IB and ISI in the shape of an NOC and from Home Department. The guard should have their own firearms license which should be up to date with full duty stamps.
F. The sign of professional security guard company is that they will refuse to give you 1 guard, they will offer a minimum of two on a rotation 12-hour shift basis with rest days in between.
G. Before the guard comes to your home, set some ground rules of do's and don't for your family/staff and him. H. If he is armed, ask him to demonstrate safe loading, unloading, and handling of a firearm. Most guard companies provide their guards with a 12 gauge shotgun, they should have a minimum of 12 shells for each guard on site.

Responding to an Attack or Robbery:
Robbery:
First, decide if you are being robbed or attacked If you are being robbed…do not resist, Give the robber what he or she wants Remember…your goal is to avoid injury Do not carry anything of value that you are not willing to lose.

Second, if you are being attacked…decide NOW how you are going to respond: Safety in these situations is a personal choice, because only you can decide how to respond, Points to Consider if Being Attacked:
  • What is the intent of the suspect?
  • Determine if a weapon is involved
  • Is there one suspect or two?
  • How do you normally respond to threats?
  • What is your physical ability?
  • Where is the suspect trying to take you?
  • Do you really want to "fight"?
If you don't know any real self-defence and have never had any martial arts training I would strongly recommend looking into Tony Blauer's SPEAR system. It is a very good bridge skill and is taught to police all over the world:
Other good self defence martial arts include Karate, Brazilian jiu-jitsu & Krav Maga, although I cannot vouch for the quality of trainers in Pakistan.

JUST REMEMBER WHATEVER YOU DO, YOUR GOAL HERE IS SURVIVAL

After an Attack or Robbery:

  • Do not feel guilty or embarrassed
  • Go to a safe place to report the crime
  • Preserve all physical evidence
  • Call the police IMMEDIATELY
  • Remember…you can do everything right and still become the victim of a crime
 
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[Part 4]

Advanced situational awareness:
Do you sit facing the door at restaurants? Do you always back into parking spots? in this section of the thread, I’d like to share some situational awareness tips you can use when you’re out and about with your family, that will put you at another level when it comes to identifying your surroundings and being prepared for whatever comes your way.

There’s a saying that I use often when discussing home security, which is “know your neighbourhood.” The baseline is the standard by which anything out of the ordinary stands out against.

Meaning that if you know the cars that commonly park in and around a neighbour's house and one day you see an unfamiliar vehicle parked on the street, that’s out of the ordinary; outside the baseline.

Noticing this and other details like it, can help alert you to threats that might arise. The devil is in the details, as they say and all danger comes from this place. The goal is to recognise it ahead of time and have already prepared your response.

That’s what this article is all about today, doing the upfront work to have a plan in case something goes wrong. Just like your neighbourhood, there’s advance work you can do on places you visit on a regular basis and even those you’ve never been before.

Maps are your friend:
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Maps aren’t just good for navigating, they can help you learn the ingress and egress routes, points of interest and emergency resources of an area that you’re planning to visit. You don’t even need a physical map, (though one is good for backup) most of this area familiarisation can be done using Google Maps or another online navigational resource in advance of your visit.

With all the advancements in technology today, there’s even a way to get a three-dimensional view of the area with online map views and Google’s Street View can be an invaluable resource to learn about terrain features in the immediate vicinity, sadly street view is not available in Pakistan, but it doesn't hurt to do a recce of an area prior to visiting it.

This is all about knowledge work. Knowledge is power and the more familiar you are with the places you visit, or even intend to visit, the more prepared you’ll be for responding to threats that could occur and where you should go during an emergency.

Sketching your own maps:
While doing proper advance work on an area is a skill-set that’s in use by many government agencies, Observation is a critical skill and you can develop your observational skills by starting to observe the important details inside and outside a building, later using that information to sketch your own maps.

This provides two benefits, one is having your own map of an establishment if you ever need it in the future and the most important reason is using the creation of maps to develop your observational skill-set through repetition.

The more you practice observing a location and then drawing a map of it based on what you remember, the more powerful your observation will become. The reason being is that you’ll no doubt miss important details you wish you’d remembered when later drawing a map.

That will force you to think about them and memorise them better the next time. This repetition will hone your skill to the point where this observational detail of places you go becomes second nature.

Your goal should be to draw so many maps after you’re out and about, that you get to the point where you no longer have to draw them and you’re instinctively noting the details you previously would have had to memorise to build a map off of.

As an example, how many times have you heard, or even seen information that you wanted to remember, but never wrote it down? More than likely, that information evaporated from your short term memory and left you kicking yourself for not writing it down.

That’s the same in this example, however you’re not only getting the practice of writing things down to remember them later, you’re getting the practice of being forced to observe important details, in order to be properly prepared for a response to potential threats.

Confused yet? Let’s look at what kind of details I’m referring to observing, by using the example of a restaurant you’ve just arrived at with a group of friends. At this point, if you weren’t already familiar with the area you’re travelling to, a proper map study would need to be done, as mentioned earlier.

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What to note:
  • Where should you park? Can you manoeuvre your vehicle out of the spot, even if someone double parked in front of you? Is your parking spot in an optimal position in relation to the egress points of the parking lot, or is that not something you have to worry about, due to having a lifted suspension to negotiate curbs and sidewalks if you had to?
  • If you’ll be leaving the building at night, what does the parking lot lighting look like? Will there be dark areas you’ll be crossing to get back to your vehicle? If so, consider parking elsewhere in a well-lit area. There’s always the health benefit of more walking by parking further out, but realise that you’ll need to cover more ground if you have to get back to your vehicle in an emergency.
  • Back in to the parking spot for easier egress when you leave and take the time to observe after you put the car in park. What’s the baseline? Is anything out of the ordinary with the vehicles you’re parked amongst? Do the people walking around, or coming in and out of the establishments, look to belong?
  • Note the location you parked and burn it into your memory, you don’t want to be running around trying to remember where you parked in an emergency. Ensure that anyone who could be responsible for driving if you were incapacitated, knows this info as well.
  • As you approach your destination, note the building layout. What direction is the front door / front side of the building facing? Is the front of the building all glass? What’s the composition of the exterior walls? Are they made out of concrete, stucco? This is important to note for not only the purpose of cover, but also for how wide your field of view will be from the inside as you’re looking out towards the front entrance.
  • As you step inside, note the table layout, where’s your optimum seat at? Can you put your back to the wall and still see the entrances? If the restaurant isn’t self-seating, ask the host or hostess for a specific location. Don’t be afraid to speak up and let it be known where you’d prefer to sit.
  • Start looking around for additional entrances and exit doors, emergency or otherwise. There’s usually always an exit in a restaurant kitchen that leads outside for easy disposal of trash into a dumpster. It might be impossible to confirm this, but put that into your memory bank.
  • Does the restaurant have cameras? How many are there and where are they pointed? Being recorded isn’t always a bad thing, it can often prove your location if it was ever called into question.
  • Where’s the hard cover? Meaning if bullets started flying, where would you move to for cover? FYI, a flipped over restaurant table is not the answer. Kitchens are usually a great spot, not only because of the heavy cooking equipment and thicker walls designed to mask the noise coming from inside, but because there’s also probably that exit door we talked about.
  • Size up everyone in the restaurant, even if eye contact makes you uncomfortable. Get a read on people and notice if the way they’re acting looks out of the ordinary for the baseline of the establishment. Is it just a quarrel amongst a couple, or something that could turn violent at any moment? Anything that piques your interest should be followed up with noticing distinguishing details about said person. Not just what they’re wearing, but any identifying marks or features.
  • Keep your head on a swivel and keep observing. This shouldn’t be to the extreme of detracting from your enjoyment of having a meal with friends, but look at the entrance every once in awhile and scan the restaurant. If you think of this in terms of the Col. Cooper Color Code, you’re still in the Yellow here.
  • Your departure from the establishment is no different than your entrance, continue observing the environment all the way back to your vehicle. Once there and everyone is back inside the vehicle, get in the habit of immediately locking the doors if they don’t do so automatically when you turn the key. It’s better to habitually lock them anyway, to avoid a surprise of someone intent on doing you harm from opening the door while you were distracted and hadn’t turned the key yet.
Coloured Structure Reference:

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One last thing I want to go over is an easy to remember system for quickly identifying different sides of a building. This Coloured Structure Reference can be good for a group of friends communicating internally, or for couples to use for identification.

While it’s always good to have a general ideal of the cardinal directions wherever you go, it’s not always intuitive to say “pick me up on the southwest side of the building.” Using the colours Green, Red, Black and White, label the front primary entrance White. Opposite of White, or the back of the building, becomes Black. While facing the building, the right side becomes Red. I remember this as “Red Right.” Opposite of that is Green, so the left side of the building becomes Green.

Closing:
I hope this has given you some information on ways that you can train your powers of observation and things to notice the next time you’re out and about. Again, the goal here is to develop your observational skill-set and notice threats before they happen, in addition to pre-planning a response and course of action should anything occur when you’re out.
 
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Great stuff

I am also very security conscious

Muslims everywhere need to wake up and be mindful of security

Also of self defence and not just for boys but everyone girls especially
Physical fitness with a good mix of strength and cardiovascular training

And as much legal arms as you can get and if you are really in danger (India) illegal arms


We need to plan for our defence
 
An incident like this has happened with my family last month. Let me give you a brief description of what happened that night
My father used to come home around 10 pm from work. On that night, when he returned two men were sitting in front of our neighbor's house in WASA and LWMC uniform. He thought they are for cleaning main holes because from the last two to three days Authorities were cleaning main holes in our street. So he ignored this threat.
He, as usual, unlocked the main gate of our house as he always carries a key with him and started parking his bike inside the garage. Then those two guys came after him and hid behind the gate as it was opened. So when my father tried to close the door they came in front of him and pointed a gun on him. My father reacted quickly and tried to get hold of his gun but that guy was out of his range so he missed him. That guy instantly fired the gun and ran away. The bullet hit my father in the neck and pierced his left jaw and went out from his face. After hearing the noise of the bullet everyone came outside and took him to the hospital. He had to go through major surgery but Alhamdullilah he is out of danger now.
After seeing the CCTV footage of the nearby camera in our street we have found that those guys had done a complete recce and they were following my father from his workplace. As my father didn't come home directly from the workplace that night, he first visited his friend and stayed there for 10 to 15 minutes and then came home. From CCTV footage, we have seen one of those guys receiving a call or message on his mobile and exactly after one minute my father passed from there. So we think their plan was to held hostage my father and rob the complete house but my father responded quickly due to which they reacted in panic and ran away.
The problem in Pakistan is mostly robbers are armed and you don't have any chance against them unless you are a trained guy who knows how to disarm a person. My point of view about our incident is my father should have let those guys close in and then had tried to snatch his gun. Because those two were lean and short in height. They couldn't overcome him as he is a tall guy.
From this, I think our best bet is to stay alert in the outside environment and always scan your surroundings when you are going to a bank or coming home. But one should keep his weapon with him when he is traveling alone or going to a suspicious place.
 
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My father reacted quickly and tried to get hold of his gun but that guy was out of his range so he missed him. That guy instantly fired the gun and ran away. The bullet hit my father in the neck and pierced his left jaw and went out from his face.
Sorry to know about what happened, not the best tactic to un-arm an armed gun man. Best of health to your dad.
 
Other good self defence martial arts include Karate, Brazilian jiu-jitsu & Krav Maga, although I cannot vouch for the quality of trainers in Pakistan.
I saw the ATM video.

In Krav Maga, i was given training to tackle this ATM awareness and mugging issue but in much more confined space. This video shows a lot of space to move and react. I was trained while having almost an arm's length of space where i was boxed in, pushed, tried to get gagged etc.

What I have learnt from Krav Maga is that - i am mentally prepared to handle 1-5 or even 7-10 guys. I will not freak out, I will at once know what I have to do and yes i might get beaten up eventually coz i am not Sultan Rahi or SRK in a movie. However, somethings have been hammered in me during training since Krav Maga teaches u - not to freeze, not to freak out, not to give in, not to start shivering, not to get scared what is going to happen. Just handle a situation - Psychologically first, like talk and diffuse a situation, buy time, look for alternatives in few seconds that i have left with, think about 5 next moves, mark the places where will i hit the person like groin, face, eyes etc, keep making distance through circling (not backing off- boxers circle around opponent in a fight, they dont back off), keep wall on my back (not get pinned against it but know whats on my back) as not to get trapped in a circle of people and get hit from behind by someone, know about exits, shout and scream if someone neutral comes along as he will be my witness afterwards etc.

In Krav maga as an example, after every move, after punching, after kicking, i had to look for exit. So every time i put someone down on ground,i dash for exit and escape. This becomes second nature. Remember Jason Bourne ? (yeah im NOT him). He tackled, used fists, used techniques without thinking.

Krav Maga doesnt make someone Bruce Lee or Jacky Chen or Jason Bourne but it has made me very confident to handle dangerous situations which could be once in a lifetime even like getting mugged, confronting an armed gun man, getting car jacked. I might not win, but if need be, i am trained not to get myself hurt and to inflict as much damage as possible in minimal time.

Military trained officers, soldiers can think quickly, can handle situation, can take charge of circumstances - due to nature of training. One more thing - they know how to team up and fight as one even though they might be strangers in a situation like passengers on a bus. Gladiator movie, Russel Crowe asks same thing when in the Colosseum. Then there is a sense of a "duty" in military trained personnel. They will sacrifice for a civilian, like they will confront robbers, thieves etc, they will jump in a river to save someone drowning without second thought. This comes through training, not just use of guns in field area, but discipline, team work, patriotism etc making them mentally tough in situations which seem impossible to others.
 
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Sorry to know about what happened, not the best tactic to un-arm an armed gun man. Best of health to your dad.
Thanks.... btw what's the best way of handling an armed person according to your krav maga training?
 
Thanks.... btw what's the best way of handling an armed person according to your krav maga training?
Best is to give him what he wants. Otherwise, talk, minimize distance to strike to get hold of gun. Looking into the barrel /muzzle of a gun induces fear by itself so avoid that, look at the hand holding gun, not into barrel of gun.

In your dad's case, there were two persons, one shot at him, other also could have had a gun. So one of the ways, is to use one of the bandits as a body shield by bringing him between you and other bandit, so the other bandit if fires, hits his own bandit buddy. That solves one of the issues if you actually decide to tackle them. If you don't want to fire a gun, dont want to take a risk, dont want to face a gun, then dont make a move. If you feel they are hell bent on killing you or a family member, then make a move.
See a KM video how to tackle a gun armed bandit. I can type but its better if you see technique on a youtube video.
 
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