Just like the abeed violated Islam in his pursuit of this woman,
No he did not. The abeed did what Islam requires, he first asked her father, but her father refused, and why? Because of racism (haram), so her father is the one who violated Islam.
The abeed is the perfect Muslim. Her father is the kafer.
Doesnt matter if the father does not agree.
Oh yes it does. The kaliyaa asked her father for permission, but her father refused based on racism, which is haram.
The kaliyaa did nothing wrong.
The kaliyaa is the perfect Muslim, her father is a kafer.