I'm sorry sir but in your zeal to defend your motherland you're defending the initial inaction by the CCP.
Please understand, the criticism is not aimed at China, a largely peacefull country with friendly and intricate culture; but the CCP government. They were responsible for the slow response and outright obfuscation of the initial warnings. If this was handled in a forthright manner, we(the global community) could've handled it much better.
I'm afraid for the elderly in my household and you can't deny the CCP's role in this by bringing in India's weaknesses. You can't hide CCP's actions by saying " our government is better than yours" that line of reasoning simply doesn't work.
If you outright obscure shortcomings or policiy or administrative lapses, then it's only a matter of time before history repeats itself. Accountability is a must.