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hinduguy, only inde guy not interested in having too many children hehe( i am messing with you , i find you very reasonable
), you my best pepe after cherokke
(no homo)
Why do you folks want to have so many children, I agree children are a blessing from lord but at the same time we have to provide from them, give them a good upbringing, give them the proper necessities they need and as well make them good citizens and that cannot be done if you have like four or five children unless you are super rich.(this is slightly in religious tone and I apologize if this offends you in advance as it is not intended from my intention to enforce my beliefs)
Children now a days need soccer lessons, piano lessons, summer camp, clothes,day care(unless wife willing to sacrifice 1 year of her career on familie after birth ) food(big one), bills, mortgage, two cars(3 if you can afford it), line of credit and cottage. If we want to raise our children like this then either we work our ***** of or we stick with one or two children. Personally I unlike my collegues want a traditional household similar to my gramps or even my dads where there might be more childeren like 2 or even 3(i know i am being selfish) but balance this by not giving them extra luxeries and letting them earn it . I know there childhood will sucks especially you know not being given everything but if worked for my dad then it sure can work for them. Also once again before some one calls me chauvinist, I know having three children is excessive and obsessive but growing up if i did not have my babe frere and soeur then it would be boring chilhood mon ami
Please mon ami, he is being offensive and majoritie of muslam want co-existance but sometimes not all of us follow our scripture and bring our hate, islam is a religion of peace and mon ami we love every body just as much and I think he is being a bad apple and should apologize to you. I cannot speak for him but from what i have been taught and being raised in a household was never to disrespect anyone's moral compass however if some thing is wrong then call them out on that so like terrorism is evil and nothing to do with any religion. Same thing with these people , they create corruption among people to create hatred and then monsieurs/athiest say look 'see how counter-productive religion is' , when it is intended to be exactly the opposite.
I am sure there are also bad apples in your communitie or for that matter any society and we should simply report and ignore these folks. Sorry for the long rambling and this is a defence forum so lets keep these religion chitchat to minimum and i know sometimes I infer some religion things too indirectly so I am just as guilty.