Sirji,
Remember India has never disturbed the population of kashmir inspite of pandits being hounded out. India did not do a la tibet like china. India still has article 370 which imposes stringent restrictions on outsiders.
There are differences but that has to be solved only through ballots not bullets. Gilani,lone,...so called hurriyat are still alive and running amok. India has not harmed them.
Coming to your point kashmir & its heritage does not belong to few ppl living in kashmir it belongs to entire country. It more belongs to kashmiri pandits who were hounded out.
Just bcos a few ppl want to usurp the power through violence does not mean India will give into it. There are have been historical wrongs & rights but looking at it through through the prism of few ppl will only further the injustice but not solve it. It will simply be an enactment of partition.