I am almost sure you are taking cherry picking lessons from an esteemed Pakistani blog writer who is now not very visible on this forum.
Instead of being too anal about the numbers, a simple eyeballing will tell you the following
1. Average fatalities in an incident for India has been dropped from 18.89 in 2003 to 1.32 in 2012. This tells you that the much touted (by you) increase in incidents is actually incidents of individualistic nature or incidents where there are zero fatalities.
2. So Net Net, for India, in last 10 years
a. Fatalities per incident decreased from 18.89 to 1.32 (
95% reduction)
b. annual fatalities decreased from 3702 to 803 (
80% reduction)
c. Fatalities per million population decreased from 3.38 to 0.64 (
82% decrease)
On the other hand, for Pakistan
a. Fatalities per incident dropped from 6.52 to 3.77 (
43% reduction)
b. Annual fatalities increased from 189 to 6211 (
3200% increase)
c. Fatalaties per million increased from 1.24 to 34.66 (
2700% increase)
Make whatever of that