We indians have lost many opportunities because of foolishness. When we Got Independence, US was very supportive and enthusiastic about India, as it was the most populous democracy. Nehru looked the other way, wanting more to be a socialistic. Tried to show his statesmanship writing stupid letters to UN suggesting plebiscite in Kashmir and what not. We are still struggling about it. US (JFK) offered India with a ready made nuclear bomb to explode and get into the Nuclear Haves club. We refused. Only Nixon was very critical of us. Then we sided with Soviet Russia during Cold War and invented the stupid concept of NAM rejecting US's extended hand of partnership, because of which they had to befriend Pakistan, which made Pakistan become at par with India. We have rejected every partnership call from Americans, whereas they have helped us so much, the last one being in the Nuclear supplier Group's acceptance of India as a nuclear power even though we haven't signed NPT. Today, when China is encircling us from all direction, a global situation is emerging where US is trying to check China as China is claiming land of almost all its neighbours, not just our Arunachal Pradesh. I truly hope we don't blow this opportunity up. Life is a journey. Wherever we see opportunity we should make good use of it. The breaking up of USSR and Putin ignoring India after that; the 1965 war with China should tell us that there are no permanent friends in this world. It's all issue based. And nothing but America is a better natural ally of India as have been acknowledged by our recent leaders. Let's make good use of it rather than shying away from it. Please, please, please, DON'T BLOW IT THIS TIME..