CALM DOWN PEOPLE !!!!
It isn’t pleasant to see a debate among members of same side.
@Mangus Ortus Novem But in the midst of this debate, both of you have come up with good points, there however needs a balance and a third party involved, Allow me !!
Sex Education as per the west, i still have no idea as to what they refer to but i do know that the education they want in Pakistan should be conveyed through school which I don’t see as a good solution, actually a very bad solution with bad consequences.
As child enters 11-12, Parents must start getting open with their kids, definitely nothing dumb about discussing this with children, Jab paida kia hai to zimidari banti hai important information convey karna.
Most parents and our society in general, Consider this a taboo to discuss, i am from a good Religious Background, My family and all but neither of my parents came up to me with this talk, I once as a kid, overheard my innocent mom asking my dad with my reference, “How do boys understand everything ?” And my father replied “Khud pata chal jata hai”, by that time, i was already having some mild clues about these things but nothing really important tho, maybe i was 9 or 10. Then in time, through friends, I started to understand all this, got very ashamed and confused about this reproductive system of a human life cycle. One if my teacher told my about Ghusl and all but none of my parents.
Now, Considering our society, I have known very bad cases of Newly wed couples, getting injured, not educated with basic knowledge, going all wrong, Ending up with 4-5 or even 10+ kids in a span of a decade (especially in sindh and southern Punjab), but these people have a stupid mindset “Beta chahiye, bhale hi usse pehle 100 betian kyun na ho jaen, warna biwi tabdeel”.
New adults, in colleges and universities, fed all this adult knowledge through usual school friend circle or neighbourhood kids, know things that aren’t actually healthy or proper. This is where things go wrong,
When you learn sex education via your age kids, in schools and neighborhood kids/friends. Your fetish increases, fall into all sorts of wrong things, Po*nography, Non-Healthy acts, Homo or adultery, some as a consequence fall into drugs and all.
Solution : Parents should just break the stupid subcontinental stereotypes and stupid backward mentality, take inspiration from the Life of Prophet SA and the Sahabas, how everything was openly discussed. They should eventually prepare their children to understand everything as time goes on, as if you have entered a Parent Operated, Sex education university at 11 and you will graduate in 4-5 years.
Outcomes : When parents directly guide their kids about the sexuality, what is good, bad, what to do and what to avoid, take them into confidence about their concerns and caring nature towards the child, Child will automatically grow up to be open and truthful to the parents, will definitely avoid any sort of wrongdoings during or after higher education, Parents should also focus on and in turn give hope and support their kids to get married at early age, like 22-25, as well as care for the opinions and choices of the kid, The society will in turn move towards positivity and adultery rates would come down extremely fast. Whole generation has been lost thanks to the retarded upbringing of most current parents and subcontinental retarded values are to be blamed for.