I am very sad today

[BABA AGHORI]

He left me because of he loved someone else.
Now i am heartbroken and saddened. I don't want to live.

Don't worry kissi aur ki Zindagi kheraab kerlena... nazar ghuma ke deakho.. shikar he shikar hai har tarraf... koi aur nai toh phupo ka beta he sahi...

 

[halupridol]

When ppl leave u for someone else,,it means according to that person, u r not worth it.may sound harsh,but probably it's the truth.
Now it's up to you if u want to be sad(dead ) for a person who didn't even deem u worthy.

 

[Kakaspai]

Oh please! Its a defence forum not twitter

 

[atya]

He left me because of he loved someone else.
Now i am heartbroken and saddened. I don't want to live.

I haven't read the other replies so apologies if this is a repeated message. You haven't mentioned how this person is related to you. If he is a boyfriend then seek repentance and thank Allah SWT for saving you from continuing a haram relationship and being hurt more further down the line.

If he is your husband then firstly I would like to say is alhamdulillah. A man like him would never have been faithful to you or treated you rightfully and you should find peace in the fact that his true nature has been revealed to you.

If he is your husband then know that this is a test from Allah SWT and He SWT never burdens a soul greater than it can bear. This is a test of your imaan, stay strong, find solace in His remembrance and seek professional help too. Some people enter our lives as a blessing, whereas others come to teach us something and leave. It really isn't the end of the world, He is the Best of Planners and he has something great for you coming. In Sha Allah you will see that soon.

 

[Hamza913]

He left me because of he loved someone else.
Now i am heartbroken and saddened. I don't want to live.

Asalamu Alaikum

Find a good Muslim, marry him, and forget this guy.

Whatever happens is Allah's will. Besides, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

 

[Srinivas]

He left me because of he loved someone else.
Now i am heartbroken and saddened. I don't want to live.

Look around there will be some good guys who suit you. There is always a new beginning.

Just a matter of 3 months.

 

[lastofthepatriots]

Why sad?

I hate ashiqi people like this. Zindagi gulzar he.

Your life is your own given to you by Allah swt. You should never invest your life into someone else.

 

[Tps43]

Good now jump from ishq-e-majazi to ishq-e-hakiki.

@django ..words of advice please

@Mentee...aap wesay hi tashreef le ayen hamesha ki tarah

@tps77 ...3 aurtein 3 kahaniyan, the new trend

@The Sandman ... wish you were here

Usko Pata chal giya hoga kah yeh londa hai
Btw @Mentee ke tou yeh ID nhi
@Mods can u check his/her IP

 

[Rizwan Alam]

am I on fb or defence.pk?, same response to a lady.. aur aik larrke ne apna dukh byan kiya hota to aik reply b nahi aata

 

[lastofthepatriots]

Usko Pata chal giya hoga kah yeh londa hai
Btw @Mentee ke tou yeh ID nhi
@Mods can u check his/her IP

Give nice answer even If you think it's fake. Kya pata? Aaj kaal ki larkiyon ke zehni halaat boht kharaab ho chukay he bollywood ki wajaa se.

@Maha Ali Khan Your parents gave birth to you. Allah swt is there with you. What else do you have to worry about? Pyar/Romance is all make/believe things they show you in films. Only you can be sincere with yourself. Only Allah swt will ever be sincere to you. Don't worry about this guy/gandu or whatever.

Bacha, khush raho. Andaay wala burger ka ke apna homework kar lo. : )

 

[PakSword]

Aaj kaal ki larkiyon ke zehni halaat boht kharaab ho chukay he bollywood ki wajaa se.

This is why I also responded seriously.. as she said she doesn't want to live...

Bhai kuchh pata nahi kisi din train ke neechay dede apnay aap ko.. Iss liey behtar hai ke serious lia jaey.. shak na kia jaey even if you think ke yeh koi larka hai..

I haven't read the other replies so apologies if this is a repeated message. You haven't mentioned how this person is related to you. If he is a boyfriend then seek repentance and thank Allah SWT for saving you from continuing a haram relationship and being hurt more further down the line.

If he is your husband then firstly I would like to say is alhamdulillah. A man like him would never have been faithful to you or treated you rightfully and you should find peace in the fact that his true nature has been revealed to you.

If he is your husband then know that this is a test from Allah SWT and He SWT never burdens a soul greater than it can bear. This is a test of your imaan, stay strong, find solace in His remembrance and seek professional help too. Some people enter our lives as a blessing, whereas others come to teach us something and leave. It really isn't the end of the world, He is the Best of Planners and he has something great for you coming. In Sha Allah you will see that soon.

Aap itna achay likh leti hain, mujhay tou pata hi nahi tha!

 

[lastofthepatriots]

This is why I also responded seriously.. as she said she doesn't want to live...

Bhai kuchh pata nahi kisi din train ke neechay dede apnay aap ko.. Iss liey behtar hai ke serious lia jaey.. shak na kia jaey even if you think ke yeh koi larka hai..

When someone is sad on the internet, I take it very seriously. Even If it is a chuttiya Indian. Aglay ka kuch ne pata ho ta.

 

[Tps43]

Give nice answer even If you think it's fake. Kya pata? Aaj kaal ki larkiyon ke zehni halaat boht kharaab ho chukay he bollywood ki wajaa se.

@Maha Ali Khan You parents gave birth to you. Allah swt is there with you. What else do you have to worry about? Pyar/Romance is all make/believe things they show you in films. Only you can be sincere with yourself. Only Allah swt will ever be sincere to you. Don't worry about this guy/gandu or whatever.

MY experience is that a guy/girl with 6 posts comes here and post I am very sad bcz he left me esp on defence forum knowing that 95% people are male here.
Khair @Maha Ali Khan I wont say forget him as people here saying forget about him leave Bcz u cant forget him but I would advise u just get busy in ur daily routine be more active here on pdf , Play some kinda sports hangout with friends just get ur self busy u will eventually forget him.

 

[lastofthepatriots]

Akhir me saab insaan hi he. If we can give support to someone and make them feel better then Allah swt will be happy with us.

 

[Sankpal]

He left me because of he loved someone else.
Now i am heartbroken and saddened. I don't want to live.

Don't worry... It happens.

When 1st time happened with me then I almost became mental for next 6 months. Everyday I was taking alcohol after office hours.

2nd time, once happened. I was in sad mode for next two months...

3rd time, I was mature enough to handle me self.

4rt time.... What waalo be arrange marriage karwaa di.. now no options.

It is painful but life doesn't end. Jo upper waale be aakpe nasheeb me likha hai, wo hi milega--- i learned from my life