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How to get rid of Husn Parasti ?

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I dont know what is correct English word for Husn prast i.e someone who has this habit of feeling attraction toward any girl which he perceive as attractive/cute even after having someone special in life . Someone who has obsession with beautiful girls and never satisfy. English word might be gallant/aesthete. How to get rid of this habit as obviously every cute girl you meet or find attractive cannot be your in real life? Can we change our feeling?
Try fasting.

Yes I would especially like to hear @django thoughts on this subject hehe....(I think he is the only one of us thats married?)

How to balance the tharkiness internally after you found a system to segregate ms. always-right from it ;)

So far I simply give in to appreciating female beauty everywhere....I don't think its unhealthy. Maybe its like case of looking at the menu at all the other dishes after you have ordered one already and will be physically satiated by that one ;)
I think their is nothing wrong with appreciating a beauty yet it becomes unhealthy when one starts to obsessively chasing after one particular object of desire who does not reciprocate ones feelings, all I can say from personal experience is focus on other lasses and eventually you will forget the "object of desire" or almost will lol.Kudos bro
 
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I dont know what is correct English word for Husn prast i.e someone who has this habit of feeling attraction toward any girl which he perceive as attractive/cute even after having someone special in life . Someone who has obsession with beautiful girls and never satisfy. English word might be gallant/aesthete. How to get rid of this habit as obviously every cute girl you meet or find attractive cannot be your in real life? Can we change our feeling?
I think the question is what would you like to do next after seeing a good looking gyal?
 
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I think there is no way to stop yourself from looking at other attractive girls.people surrounding us all have this same mentality. Only few people are good and they are mostly married people lol.I have seen lots of girls,very beautiful. There are also lots of beautiful faces who are exact copy of some Hollywood actress.I am a fan of sienna guillory.if you look at neelum muneer,she is having almost same face as guillory.I have seen a girl here,same face even same voice as Kat Dennings.these are just miracles hahaha.
 
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The greatest trick is that there is always someone better. So you may get obsessed by the chase but not the beauty itself.

These are all natural tendencies which fade out with the passage of time.
 
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Make all of them wear full burkha. Ban FB, Whatsapp, Google, whole damn internet and TV . Stay paak-saaf.

I dont know what is correct English word for Husn prast i.e someone who has this habit of feeling attraction toward any girl which he perceive as attractive/cute even after having someone special in life . Someone who has obsession with beautiful girls and never satisfy. English word might be gallant/aesthete. How to get rid of this habit as obviously every cute girl you meet or find attractive cannot be your in real life? Can we change our feeling?
 
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Make all of them wear full burkha. Ban FB, Whatsapp, Google, whole damn internet and TV . Stay paak-saaf.

Hahaha good one. sounds practical too. but quite extreme don't you think? so i will pass

its not like this will lead to mob-mass rape mentality. oh wait !!
 
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I dont know what is correct English word for Husn prast i.e someone who has this habit of feeling attraction toward any girl which he perceive as attractive/cute even after having someone special in life . Someone who has obsession with beautiful girls and never satisfy. English word might be gallant/aesthete. How to get rid of this habit as obviously every cute girl you meet or find attractive cannot be your in real life? Can we change our feeling?

But why get rid of it ? can't you just love Your wife as well as other beautiful girls you come across. ?

See, i am just like you. My Mom is forcing me from Previous 2 Year's to get married. But i always try to avoid such discussion for the reason that what if i liked a girl just the next day of my marriage ? Or may be on the marriage day ? You don't always know what's coming to you. right ? :azn:

So i just chill, and enjoy the beauty of all girl's that i came across. :partay:
 
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lmao

first off, it's natural, no need to fight the attraction part.

what you do need to fight is the urge to act on those impulses, don't pursue her if you have a good thing going with the missus or someone special.

shouldn't be that big of a deal.
 
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"Beautified for men is the love of things they covet; women, children, much of gold and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is the pleasure of the present world's life; but Allah has the excellent return (Paradise with flowing rivers, etc.) with Him."

Al-Emran Verse No:14
 
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mein Aligarh Muslim University mein graduation karney ... how to get rid of beauty ke liye nahi gaya tha...
duniya ke behtreen tehzeeb haya or sharam waley aise na bayan ho paye khoobsurat mahjabeen chehre thy ..
kuch girls naqab dalke ati thi, but eyes.....
 
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See, i am just like you. My Mom is forcing me from Previous 2 Year's to get married. But i always try to avoid such discussion for the reason that what if i liked a girl just the next day of my marriage ? Or may be on the marriage day ? You don't always know what's coming to you. right ? :azn:
waqey yar mujhay khud is cheez ka dar hay kay arrange marriage karwa to lon.par apna hi dill chekh chekh kay bolney lag jata hay kay bhai love or loyalty ki meri koi guaranty nahi hay bhai apna risk app hi lo:lol:
 
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