How to get rid of Husn Parasti ?

[Divergent]

I dont know what is correct English word for Husn prast i.e someone who has this habit of feeling attraction toward any girl which he perceive as attractive/cute even after having someone special in life . Someone who has obsession with beautiful girls and never satisfy. English word might be gallant/aesthete. How to get rid of this habit as obviously every cute girl you meet or find attractive cannot be your in real life? Can we change our feeling?

LOL its called infatuation. Sometimes your attracted to someone physically, but their personality may not be great, sometimes you may find someone average but their personality really enhances them and other times you'll come across someone who's attractive and good character - Now that is a RARE combination.

If you are in a commitment then you just stop engaging with them because it doesn't help the situation? Or you avoid them?

If someone is destined in your life then someway or another, they'll make it. But you don't stop for no one. You keep going.

I just hope its not a perverted problem though -_-

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

LOL its called infatuation. Sometimes your attracted to someone physically, but their personality may not be great, sometimes you may find someone average but their personality really enhances them and other times you'll come across someone who's attractive and good character - Now that is a RARE combination.

If you are in a commitment then you just stop engaging with them because it doesn't help the situation? Or you avoid them?

If someone is destined in your life then someway or another, they'll make it. But you don't stop for no one. You keep going.

They say weakness of man is beautiful girls and weakness of women is wealth I know its gross generalization but I don't think all men feel in same way as I do so that's why I wanted to overcome this weakness or I should have been born in arab land with 10 or 20 wives haha

You see personality is not something which remain consistent throughout our life as some people learn to improve themselves while others get worse with time but everyone of us has some pros and cons as no person is entirely evil or entirely saint . I always find something good in others

 

[Kitten]

Get married. Your wife will keep you in check.

 

[Divergent]

They say weakness of man is beautiful girls and weakness of women is wealth I know its gross generalization but I don't think all men feel in same way as I do so that's why I wanted to overcome this weakness or I should have been born in arab land with 10 or 20 wives haha

You see personality is not something which remain consistent throughout our life as some people learn to improve themselves while others get worse with time but everyone of us has some pros and cons as no person is entirely evil or entirely saint . I always find something good in others

Women don't chase money trust me, they just want to be comfortable and treated with love and respect.

You have a weakness

There's a difference between being attracted and desiring. When you find someone attractive you just find them good looking and credit them for that, but when you desire someone you want them - then that's a different thing.

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

Get married. Your wife will keep you in check.

I am happily married and it was love marriage and did this marriage early to get rid of looking left and right but but

beautiful girls still attract me

 

[Divergent]

I am happily married and it was love marriage and did this marriage early to get rid of looking left and right but but

beautiful girls still attract me

Then you need to revive the 'honeymoon' period with your Wife and go on a vacation

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

Women don't chase money trust me, they just want to be comfortable and treated with love and respect.

You have a weakness

There's a difference between being attracted and desiring. When you find someone attractive you just find them good looking and credit them for that, but when you desire someone you want them - then that's a different thing.

every girl say that she don't care about money but you often see beautiful girls with rich guys ..no one go after handsome cleaner

yes you are right just finding them attractive is one thing but to go after chasing them or to want them another

 

[Kitten]

I am happily married and it was love marriage and did this marriage early to get rid of looking left and right but but

beautiful girls still attract me

Well no can help with that unfortunately. I'm a bit too young and inexperienced to be giving relationship advice (less then 20 years old. only ever dated one guy), so that's just kind of something you're going to have to work out for yourself.

There's no magic cure, it's on you.

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

Then you need to revive the 'honeymoon' period with your Wife and go on a vacation

Ok will try this recipe and its not that I don't love her but you see this world is full of beautiful people

Our girls cannot share husband like women in middle east does so no others option

Well no can help with that unfortunately. I'm a bit too young and inexperienced to be giving relationship advice (less then 20 years old. only ever dated one guy), so that's just kind of something you're going to have to work out for yourself.

There's no magic cure, it's on you.

You do seem more mature than your age though
I assume you are in relationship so tell me what you do when you meet another guy who seem very dashing and handsome I,e someone irresistible . How do you control this desires or thought of not wanting them ?

 

[Divergent]

every girl say that she don't care about money but you often see beautiful girls with rich guys ..no one go after handsome cleaner

yes you are right just finding them attractive is one thing but to go after chasing them or to want them another

I hope you're just finding them attractive and nothing more lol

 

[Proudpakistaniguy]

I hope you're just finding them attractive and nothing more lol

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[Verve]

I could tell you something to imagine to stop the attraction at that particular moment but it's not for the forum - a doctor told me that btw (a hint). It works to some extent

Men are designed with attraction for women. You can't escape it.

However: Lower your gaze and keep telling yourself 'I don't want to think about it' whenever you do - rewire your brain that way by rejecting the thought.

If you can't help looking all over, try focusing on the feet only (to make it a habit to lower the gaze). Look for those with exposed feet and sexy shoes (narrows your gaze). Obsess over the feet (develop foot fetish if need be ) and if the feet are acceptably beautiful, then only look up - pointless otherwise.

By the way, 'poondi' in the days of tangas and full burkas was by checking the feet!!! And that's how women of the household were spotted too by the man of those days ... by their foot wear!

oh wait, you are married

 

[Hell hound]

I could tell you something to imagine to stop the attraction at that particular moment but it's not for the forum - a doctor told me that btw (a hint). It works to some extent

Men are designed with attraction for women. You can't escape it.

However: Lower your gaze and keep telling yourself 'I don't want to think about it' whenever you do - rewire your brain that way by rejecting the thought.

If you can't help looking all over, try focusing on the feet only (to make it a habit to lower the gaze). Look for those with exposed feet and sexy shoes (narrows your gaze). Obsess over the feet (develop foot fetish if need be ) and if the feet are acceptably beautiful, then only look up - pointless otherwise.

By the way, 'poondi' in the days of tangas and full burkas was by checking the feet!!! And that's how women of the household were spotted too by the man of those days ... by their foot wear!

oh wait, you are married

The f dude

 

[Nilgiri]

The f dude

It gave me a whole new perspective lol.

 

[Hell hound]

It gave me a whole new perspective lol.

I was laughing like hell after reading his post it was extremely funny and pervert.
Seriously we need more gems like this to lighten the mood of PDF

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