How to deal with nosy relatives?

[Azadkashmir]

bro i was once poor. struggled. although my family was wealthy.
got a good education. worked hard and never cheated anyone. prayed to Allah for blessing and I AM THE MOST BLESSED PERSON I KNOW. I can't thank Allah enough. I will never ever be able to if I tried.
stay away from negative people. if you must speak to your relatives. keep it short and sweet and move away

why do you sound like me except family aint wealthy.

 

[Trango Towers]

why do you sound like me except family aint wealthy.

your rizak is with you. do what you need to. remember no job will make you rich. so go out and to business and earn your reward

 

[PakFactor]

your rizak is with you. do what you need to. remember no job will make you rich. so go out and to business and earn your reward

True that bro!

 

[Moonlight]

@Moonlight

E-Kundli App bana bhi le ab

proposal ready hai bus

 

[Blacklight]

Itni bistii?

Seems pdf isn't the only place

 

[Trango Towers]

Uncle of mine says what you have achieved here in Uk I say I got two degrees and I worked very hard almost dying in pain I had spinal injury many years ago inshallah much better.
but these unappreciative ppl will say we don't accept its fake he says even though i offered to show photos, certificate even though this mangater dangarr cant read. you cant have intelligent debate but they resort personal insults.

I offer them sources references but they don't get it. never debate with dangars.

he sits in my car ashes on the floor and naswar spits i think fcuk it my mum brother but he is total wanker. he will try going thru my fone but i have it locked. they have no manners, they shout when they speak, they are embarrassing in the supermarket by behaving like jangli, if they pick up a product they pick it up like a criminal making ppl suspicious. They will sell you out. yet you explain as deep as you can to make them understand but they say you chatting
s h it. but these mangater will have samsung s9 phone even though they can't read but memorised pictures to navigate.

1. Why do u need to prove anything to a goat herder? Does he understand what a degree is?
2. Does he even know what a spine is? What is he doing here ?
3. Why do u need to show him your medical record? Who is he?
4. Personal insults...give it right back. The asshole will respect you. Village mentality. You give respect they will abuse. Law of the jungle
5. Why do u let him sit in your car?
6. Smoke and spit....are you crazy and then naswar? And you debate with this
7. He goes through your phone...my wife doesnt touch my phone...
8. Why r u in a supermarket with him.

Sorry bro all the above is your fault as you took a donkey and brought it into the 21st century living room and expected a donkey to behave as a human.
1. Set up a meet with your mother and tell her in black and white. It end now.
2. Why do you put up with this shit. Has he got the hottest daughter on the planet that you cannot do without. F him. Get the C out of your life.
3. Make it clear. Dont touch my phone. Dont sit in my car. We will never talk again and dont even look at me let alone talk to me .
4. You mom with play the family car to black mail you. Tell her ok mom I will move out and marry my own choice as you prefer you jail brother over your son.
5. Where is your father in all this?

 

[Blacklight]

punjabi girls we find them to chalaki and


bro it nearly every week same sh it.

You need to dis-engage. Be polite, be the bigger man, say nothing, and do what you think is right.

 

[Trango Towers]

You need to dis-engage. Be polite, be the bigger man, say nothing, and do what you think is right.

Sorry bro...I begv o differ - 7 years living in pakistan now.

You be polite they will take your pants off. Treat him as he treats you. That's not an uncle that's a nasty evil man who is no ones friend

 

[StormBreaker]

You have yet to see what the creature "parent" is capable of doing to it's own children. In Pakistani society we have made them like gods. When they themselves don't know if they are going to wake up tomorrow but they act like they "know" what is best for you. How can they claim to be infallible when they are soo damn fallible??

They are the most precious gift of Allah,
Stop disrespecting the word “Parent”.

You may have issues, But be the wiser person if you actually are in your case, IGNORE anything thrown at your face by parents.

Become independent but don’t disrespect.

Older generation is generally quite proud and ignorant.

What a strange thread

 

[Trango Towers]

you right. They memorised it like namaz.



damn this is one of my dream.

You can humiliate him

Just ask him the meaning of namaz...does he even know what he prays....that's my go to question when anyone starts talking islam to me. I say to them why is it that a denim wearing kaffir like me knows and your with your fat belly big ugly unkept beard and short salwar doesnt know. And then I keep at them because they want the subject to end or change and I keep it on why they dont know. It's so much fun.

5 times a day yiu repeat something without knowing what.
Why do you 9ray in arabic. You dont know it sk u might as well pray in chinese you dont know that either.
It's a lot of fun looool

They are the most precious gift of Allah,
Stop disrespecting the word “Parent”.

You may have issues, But be the wiser person if you actually are in your case, IGNORE anything thrown at your face by parents.

Become independent but don’t disrespect.

Older generation is generally quite proud and ignorant.

What a strange thread

Sorry bro...his parents are his mother and father. Mamu is mamu.

What is he proud of?
Ignorant because he is jahil.

You cannot apply civil behaviour with them. Let me use the word they refer to polite people in pakistan and apologise is advance..PHUDU

 

[SecularNationalist]

Uncle of mine says what you have achieved here in Uk I say I got two degrees and I worked very hard almost dying in pain I had spinal injury many years ago inshallah much better.
but these unappreciative ppl will say we don't accept its fake he says even though i offered to show photos, certificate even though this mangater dangarr cant read. you cant have intelligent debate but they resort personal insults.

I offer them sources references but they don't get it. never debate with dangars.

he sits in my car ashes on the floor and naswar spits i think fcuk it my mum brother but he is total wanker. he will try going thru my fone but i have it locked. they have no manners, they shout when they speak, they are embarrassing in the supermarket by behaving like jangli, if they pick up a product they pick it up like a criminal making ppl suspicious. They will sell you out. yet you explain as deep as you can to make them understand but they say you chatting
s h it. but these mangater will have samsung s9 phone even though they can't read but memorised pictures to navigate.

These uncle relations of chachas and mamus are born out of jealously sometimes I feel. Specially the chachas ...brothers of my father showed jealousy and hypocricy from my early age.
I feel these relationships are a formality which must be fulfilled because they are your relatives but deep down they are snakes who will bite you. I prefer to meet my good old loyal freinds than my relatives. Because jealousy seriously affects the behavior of relatives and whenever I meet them I get a very uncomfortable feeling.

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

Be balanced. There's a lot of abuse, and murder and sh!t that happens in Pak society both at hands of parents and kids.

They are the most precious gift of Allah,
Stop disrespecting the word “Parent”.

You may have issues, But be the wiser person if you actually are in your case, IGNORE anything thrown at your face by parents.

Become independent but don’t disrespect.

Older generation is generally quite proud and ignorant.

What a strange thread

 

[Azadkashmir]

You can humiliate him

Just ask him the meaning of namaz...does he even know what he prays....that's my go to question when anyone starts talking islam to me. I say to them why is it that a denim wearing kaffir like me knows and your with your fat belly big ugly unkept beard and short salwar doesnt know. And then I keep at them because they want the subject to end or change and I keep it on why they dont know. It's so much fun.

5 times a day yiu repeat something without knowing what.
Why do you 9ray in arabic. You dont know it sk u might as well pray in chinese you dont know that either.
It's a lot of fun looool


Sorry bro...his parents are his mother and father. Mamu is mamu.

What is he proud of?
Ignorant because he is jahil.

You cannot apply civil behaviour with them. Let me use the word they refer to polite people in pakistan and apologise is advance..PHUDU

bro you cant communicate or reason with these dangar. plus he weird he can switch on and off.

 

[Trango Towers]

bro you cant communicate or reason with these dangar. plus he weird he can switch on and off.

Then my brother just switch him off permanently

 

[Ahmet Pasha]

Yes they are. But in Pakistani society we have given them a god like infallible status which they don't really deserve. The parents have their rights, and the children have their rights. Both need to be respected.

most precious gift of Allah